to whom should you prefer to talk during serious topics, to a man or to a woman.

Philippines
July 16, 2012 1:32am CST
sometimes, if i'm thinking of a certain solution to a problem. I ask for some advice. i'm going to some of my girl friends and also to my boy friends. but I got confused. they have a different perception in each advice. most of the boy friends are more positive unlike to girls that are very negative. some of my girl friends are more optimistic rather than the boys. even though they have different ideas, they still help me. how about you? to whom should you prefer to discuss your serious problems. to a man or to a woman?
5 responses
@subhojit10 (7382)
• India
16 Jul 12
Well to begin with, it all depends on a situation we are into. if the situation is related to a woman, they it would be wise enough to consult a woman and if it is related to a man, then we can get handy tips from a man only.
• Malaysia
16 Jul 12
Depending on the topics at hand. I go to both as well. Although both may give different opinion, in the end it is me who will decide what's best. But decision can be made easier due to the input available from discussing with friends be it boy or girl.
@se7enthbird (8327)
• Philippines
16 Jul 12
I think it still depends on a situation. If we are talking bout serious matters and life problems it is for the girls while others such as relationship, time management and work are for men. Girls are realistic and men hates drama. Girls mentions both sides while men love the positive side. I am not saying that we are not realistic, we just believe that in time everything will be solve so why stress
• Philippines
16 Jul 12
It depends on the person and what the problem is, I have male friends that you can talk to seriously , and female friends that you can also talk to seriously. When you ask about a problem regarding relationships it is good to talk to girls because they can be straight forward unlike guys who sugar coats. Good day and God bless
@muncho15 (136)
• Philippines
16 Jul 12
it depends who should you be talking sith a serious topics, because you cannot change the gender or let your friend be only woman or man only. you should serious to those who has experience it or your best friends.