what makes you beautiful?

Philippines
July 17, 2012 9:42pm CST
the first time i heard that song, i fell in love with it's tune right away. i did search for its lyrics then i found out that the song fits me especially the very first line that says "you're insecure". haha..yes, i am! i really envy women who seem nearly perfect-- from head to foot. i honestly who used to belittle myself, i have so much insecurities. even though a lot of people would tell me how pretty i am, they would even encourage me to make an audition and be a model or an actress. the heck! they just don't see my flaws, i have lots of it! i am no match over the gorgeous women i see everyday. with that, i came to accept that there are really thousands of beautiful women everywhere and there's no sense to dream of becoming one of them, i will not surely get in. so, i gave up on it. if i couldn't be one of the most beautiful why not be sweetest or the kindest or the most caring woman ever? i think, i would be more qualified to get those.haha. actually, i would love to hear people complimenting my personality much more than praising my looks. what about you girls? do you excel much with the outside beauty or with your personality? which one do guys prefer? looking forward to your honest answers.:)Have a great day!
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7 responses
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
I prefer personality over the looks. Because I always believe that if you look goods inside, it transforms outside. It depends on a person how she/he will feel beautiful. If you are happy, you feel beautiful too. Also, being happy makes you glow.
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
really? based on your criteria, i can consider myself beautiful.haha. yeah, a smiling face always looks better than a frowning one. thanks!
• India
20 Jul 12
Girls always do think that they are beautiful lol.. Boys like girls who show the infinite care..
@sasalove (1709)
• China
18 Jul 12
I supposed that you feel insecure just because you are not confident about yourself. Maybe sometimes you are confident due to your look, but most of the time your confidence is from the judgment of other people. I really think that beauty is not the face they look, it is the charm that overflow their appearance. Face is just for your youth period. Everyone would get elder along with their age. However, some of the women is really good looking when she is 40 or 50. The beauty of the maturity is the young girl who can never compete for. In fact, I am also the women who lack of security just because I don't trust too much on my self. Sometimes I am a little suspicious. I know it is not good personality. Now I am trying to get rid of those shortcomings. I know the basic thing is to increase confidence. You are the only one in the world. You will have the merits that other beautiful girls doesn't have.
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
Well,I think I don't have both,lol! Hubby says I'm pretty,haha! And even my parents too,lol! Hmmm..but honestly,I think I could say I'm pretty but not that pretty,haha! And when it comes to personality,I'm nice,lol! Seeing your avatar,you do look pretty mylz and you should accept it,hehe!
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
18 Jul 12
It is a question to debate. Some may of the opinion that an outer beauty is important but most of the people believe in inner beauty which is more important. Outer beauty feds up rapidly while inner beauty remains forever. Do not get impressed by the outside attractive packing but always believe in the pure and long lasting material inside whether packed ordinarily.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
I prefer personality than looks. Looks can be deceiving but personality is real. What makes me beautiful is my sense of humor...... if you will look at me physically you will think i'm strict but if you will know my personality then you will find out it's really the opposite....Beauty varies.....Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
@else22 (4317)
• India
18 Jul 12
The definition of beauty is different from person to person.Some prefer outward looks,some inward beauty and again some are attracted by both inward and outward beauty.For me outward beauty is more important or even essential.In fact,it is the inward beauty that makes outward looks beautiful as well.I have seen persons who are ugly outwardly,but their heart was full of kindness,happiness and they have a cooperative nature.They are hard working and have a concentrated mind.These qualities make them look beautiful outwardly also.