Not inlove anymore?

Philippines
July 18, 2012 11:09am CST
To people who had past relationships, in your own experience I just want to ask how did you know that you don't love your partner anymore? Do both of you agreed to break up? Good day and God bless
8 responses
• United States
18 Jul 12
Well, my last break up we fought all the time and i just knew it wasnt going to work out. the one before that we were together for almost 1yr and a half although half of that time he moved and it was a very long distance thing he ended up breaking up with me even though i was moving out with him in just 3 more months but, i guess after 9 months he couldnt wait anymore. But, now i am happy to say i am in love with a great guy and we been together almost a year and i truly think hes the one.
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
Congrats with your new guy, I think people the left us in the past gives us memories and lessons to ponder and become better a person
• United States
22 Jul 12
It gives you lessons and memories but, it also gives me other issues like trusting people its been making it very hard also more jealously issues then i have had before. But, i am working on them things so in time everything will be good again and things are doing great with my boyfriend now.
@czhey21 (55)
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
you dont love your partner anymore if your partner irritates you, you’re not excited anymore, you’re only interested in yourself, you’re constantly looking out, you know you deserve better, no together time, you have no respect for your partner, you argue a lot..
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
did you experienced all this things?
• United States
18 Jul 12
I knew it was time to break up when i figuered in my past relationships that they were cheating. I think some were a mutual break up and then my last one was the worst i ever experienced. I think he cheated mutliple times and so many people tried telling me and i just let it always fly over my hear because i wanted to be with him but now we are moved on and in better places. It was a bad break up after all he was the one cheating and causing problems not me and he called the cops on me after i took my belongings back and he said i stole stuff and thats life i guess but so over that and well almost four years ago and i love the person im with now and thats all that matters in life.
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
Wow, what a experience you had with your last boyfriend, well I can't find a reason why some guy can do this to their girl, they will tell you they love you and care for you and be with you forever but suddenly they will change into azzholes. I hope you are happy with your current boyfriend , stay strong .
@Bhebelen14 (4561)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
In my past relationship I think I just felt that I am not happy and in love with him anymore. Even we have a long relationship but he betrayed and cheated me many times which I cant bear and forgive him for what he did to me during that time. I am the one who asked for break up and even if he doesn't not agreed with my decision he don't have the right to force me to be with him anymore because there's no reason to save our relationship. I am just glad that after a few years he accepted it and i found someone who love me and never let me down.
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
You really must be kind because you still forgave that guy after he cheated to you lots of times. Good luck with your new found love and I hope he will not treat you like your past boyfriend treated you
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
19 Jul 12
I am thinking about my past relationship now and I just laugh about it. How awkward it is that the people we admired and loved before are just nobody to me. I mean, they don't mean to me anymore. Sometimes, feelings changes. I have confirmed to myself that I don't love my past partners when I don't feel already the love of course. I already stopped thinking about them and all the care had gone.
@missjahn (4578)
• Philippines
19 Jul 12
a relationship is a two way process where there is sharing of same feelings and even of dreams. but when one person who is involve in the relationship refuse to accept the affection offered to her/ him, that is the time that there is something wrong going on. there is also an instance that both of you don't feel the the love like what you feel at first during the first time of your relationship. there are lots of factors why is happened like that. maybe they are bored or else they want to end their relationship as good friends. what is important even through this hard times, that you will end the relationship with respect.
@mensab (4208)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
it has always been mutual decision. we both decided to end the relationship which was not anymore helping our growth and maturity as individuals. the break-up was viewed as wise move for both of us. afterwards, we remain good friends. that how i think it should be. and i am happy that it goes that way and well.
• United States
18 Jul 12
I knew it was time to break up when i figuered in my past relationships that they were cheating. I think some were a mutual break up and then my last one was the worst i ever experienced. I think he cheated mutliple times and so many people tried telling me and i just let it always fly over my hear because i wanted to be with him but now we are moved on and in better places. It was a bad break up after all he was the one cheating and causing problems not me and he called the cops on me after i took my belongings back and he said i stole stuff and thats life i guess but so over that and well almost four years ago and i love the person im with now and thats all that matters in life.