Do you access your husband's email or social website accounts?

So you both use the same password for several accounts and never change them. I'm sure all the hackers out there will be pleased to hear this and no doubt they would thank you for making their work so easy! Do I have to spell it out? F o o l i s h.

My partner and I also knew every information that is going on specially in the internet, but despite of knowing all of that, never did I open her conversation in any social networking sites.. Maybe even if I know all of it, I still respects her boundaries.

My husband and I know eachother's passwords. We don't have any secrets, and I am not afraid to give him my passwords. He doesn't hide any passwords from me either and I have access to his bank account, his emails and his social networking sites. I don't usually visit his social networking sites or the other sites that he is a member of, but I sometimes use his netbanking because we share the money that we have. Sometimes my husband asks me to check his bank account for instance if I am online while my husband is doing something else. If he wants to check my bank account and any other account that I have he is welcome to do that, because I don't have anything to hide.

No I don't know my husbands password to anything and he doesn't know mine. But if one of us has there stuff up we both no we are equally free to look at what we are doing. Its not like we are trying to keep things from each other it's just that is how we have our stuff set up in case our daughter touches the computer. But if I need him to check something for me or me for him we will tell each other the password.

Even though you are just trying to keep your spouse away from trouble, you must still place some trust in him. Relationships are built on trust and a slight smear on that trust could break the bond. If your husband actually finds out you have been checking his email, he will be very heartbroken. It is best for the both of you that you let him have some of his privacy. That said, i am very happy for you that your husband actually rejects the girls that are hitting on him. It is very hard to get such a trustworthy spouse who is so firm on his decisions to not cheat on his significant other. I hope both of you will lead a happy married life.

We do not have a need to do that to one another. We have done it but it was only because it benefited both of us.

There have been instances when my partner and I had to access each other's emails or online bank accounts--always with each other's permission. However, we never look into each other's personal messages, not even our cell phones. I can't imagine looking into his conversation history. I wouldn't want anyone to check mine, so why would I want to see anyone else's? We have a couple friend who's the exact opposite of us---she checks his everything! When his phone beeps, she will be the first to check the message. She goes through his social networking account and looks at all his friends and deletes those she is suspicious of. It's a crazy way to live and we are surprised he still hasn't left her. I think you should stop checking his messages once in a while. Surely he will not like it. If you do something that you cannot tell your partner about, chances are it's wrong.

jureathome I trusted my husband and never looked at his mail unless he wished me to read it. while I was married we did not even have a computer. I trusted him and he =rusted me and we neither'of u s ever broke that trust

I cannot see anything wrong in visiting the sites your husband went to, but sharing the same passwords, though not intentionally trading so you can check on him now and then because something happened in the past, though not a major one gives a little bit of a hint. You've mentioned until now he does not know your accessing some of his accounts. What if one day you find out he changed his password and you can no longer access it, what then. Will it bother you that much ? Some people say old habits die hard. What if for some unknown reason, he suddenly become interested on the sites you visit, the comments and discussion you join and all of a sudden read this particular discussion, what would you feel then if he founds out ? Trust have so many colors and definitions depending on the parties concern. More often than not, we really do not like it when we are given our own dose of medicine. That is just a friendly tip.