I want to find a girlfriend , but i'm very shy . What should can i do?

China
July 21, 2012 6:38am CST
I think everyone wants to have a good lover ? So i want to have a pretty wife.
8 responses
@lampar (7597)
• United States
21 Jul 12
If you are shy but at the same time want to have a girl friend, that is just too bad, you probably will never have a girl friend until you can overcome your shy-ness. For the time being, nothing much you can do unless you becoming less shy toward girl.
• China
22 Jul 12
haha, since to the university i have changed a lot . i feel myself much better than before. gradually i want to do my work well.
@lampar (7597)
• United States
22 Jul 12
So long as you don't think that women or girls are some sorts of mytical creatures walking around your earth, or they are just like a princess that only want to date a prince among men, or just in search of a Mr universe for a date, then i am sure you can overcome your inhibition with girls/women and begin to overcome the shy part of you. If you can keep it up and don't give up, you may not even realise you have several girl friends already when the time come, more are desperately wanting to be your friend later.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
22 Jul 12
Hi, dear brother. You are too little to have a wife, but you can have a pretty gril friend. Just be brave to express your emotion to her. Fighting!
• China
25 Jul 12
Thank you my dear sister, I will try to become better and better, then I will find a good friend, right?
@subhojit10 (7382)
• India
21 Jul 12
Well being shy is not bad but over shyness will prevent you to socialize with people forget making girlfriends. You have to change yourself for a while and think that it is important to make contacts with people and thereby create a network where you can help each other. Then only you can make a girlfriend for yourself. You have to come out of your character for a while, live the reality, express your feelings and then you can see the difference.
• China
22 Jul 12
thank you for your suggests, i will do what you said. i hope we can all find happyness.
• India
21 Jul 12
Girls like people who are brave and excellent in work and kindful in heart.If you have these qualities and everyboday appreciates you then you are automatically in the queue list of atleast one girl.
• China
25 Jul 12
Yes, you are quite right. I think I am too shy sometimes and I want to find a good girl who can be with me forever, so I am always too careful.
• Philippines
21 Jul 12
I know a lot of men that do want pretty girlfriends. My boyfriend keeps telling me that he only chooses pretty girls and the fact that he chose me means that I am pretty. But I do not understand why men always have very high goals. My boyfriend is normal looking. He is not that handsome but he really aims high. And that is why he got me :) looks are not everything. Girls look for kind, funny and smart guys. If you have these three qualities you'll be sure to get a girlfriend in no time. You should not be shy too. Have the confidence to speak to her. Good luck :) happy mylotting.
• China
21 Jul 12
thank you , i do not have high goal to the thing. you are very happy have a good boyfriend. i just want to a girl who is like-minded people.
• Thailand
21 Jul 12
Are you handsome ? :-)
• China
21 Jul 12
i just unusual one.
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
Don't find a pretty girlfriend,Instead find a girld that will love you trully and knows how to accept you for who you are.......Don't try having a relationship for the reason of its physical appearance...make a relationship because of love.... try to find the courage within yourself for you to be able to expree your emotions to the irl you're going to love in the future
• Chengdu, China
25 Jul 12
Look. If you had one shot, one opportunity to seize everything you ever wanted one moment. Would you capture it or just let it slip? Don't be shy, just go ahead when you find your ture love. Otherwise, Only Teacher Cang at your harddisk company with you to suffer the lonely night. You know it.??? HAHA. ;-)