on mylot friends

@jazel_juan (15767)
Philippines
July 23, 2012 3:33am CST
Most of the time i come here now because i get to share what is on my mind, thus allowing my friends to comment back, reply, joke around, have fun..or let them earn thru my post. usually i know who will really be the ones to reply, there are some here who though i do not know personally, are already a comforting presence for me, knowing they take time to read my post makes me happy, knowing some of my posts are not worth responding they still reply and well read my whines.. sometimes i also get surprised when i would not see any of their posts, maybe because they are busy, or they have a lot of stuff online.. like when i noticed Ms. Hatley was not online for weeks but i did remember her posts on her computer breaking down, so that was reason as to why she was absent..but lately i have seen some who are not here which makes me sad though as i know mylot is the only way to access them...also today i also noticed i have not seen Thesids for sometime too, i opened his profile and he said he cannot be online as he is sick and might not be back for some time as he is ill, how i wish he will get well soon.. or those times when i also wonder how Ms. Bunnybon is, or how is Ms. Tina's finding cure for her wound is going...or where SimplyD is too as i have not seen her as well, sometimes i think being here makes me feel so attached to the ones i communicate that often. have you ever thought of your friends here even when you are not mylotting? like wonder if they are fine, or wonder if life is going well for them? or are they sick or are they well?
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@myfb2009 (8304)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 12
Jazel, sometimes we do get attached to some of our online friends when we communicate often with them. I do felt pity and sad when heard some of them having some sort of problems with their health or daily life. Although i had not known you quite well, but i do found interesting topic of you quite interesting. How i wish i have more time to be online and have lots of money going traveling meeting one by one of you. So, online friends can become like offline friends as well. Hope you are doing fine over there, too.
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
sis I am always glad to see you thu you seldom come here in mylot and do take care too. Who knows one day we will come to see each other in person
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
24 Jul 12
Hi there myfb2009, yes i have seen you around too and though yes we do not interact that much, i have also been following your posts as well and yes they are interesting too.. sometimes from posts you get to tell who the person is, or what the person is going through and its like knowing who they are.
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
hi jazel, Even I am not active here I still communicate some of my close friends in mylot through facebook or sms . I miss those days I am interacting with them maybe they are just been busy that's why they are not around here. happy mylotting
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
oh yeah...you are too busy trying to understand my post...
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• Philippines
23 Jul 12
I am busy trying to pronounce it loudly so the spell will take effect on me
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@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
well, that's the problem why the spell did not have any effect on you... keep trying
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@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
I also feel a little worried without seeing other mylotters who are close to me. I can't avoid thinking what happened to them. Anyway, that is one effect mylot gives to us- closeness,emotionally without any physical touch.
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@myfb2009 (8304)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 12
Jai sis, i do felt worried about you and the others although haven't meet you all offline yet. Maybe through communicate in discussion makes us all become known to each other over time. Hope to have the chance to meet you in future...Do take care always...
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@myfb2009 (8304)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 12
Especially at that time when there is a earthquake and heavy storm in your country...
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@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
I am looking forward the day we will be given the chance to met
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@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
I was like that a few years ago. I always expected the same people to mostly comment on my discussions and meet them in others' discussions as well. It was always fun being able to communicate with them through discussions. When I left for a long time and came back, I realized some of them have been on and off here as well for a variety of reasons, while others just left for good. In fact I know one who is my Facebook friend, although not really a personal friend. I have asked her why she I don't see her in myLot anymore and she just said that she quit, and that was just sad. Sometimes, I also wonder how the rest of the common people I meet here are. Now, mostly I just see how things are going. I just think that some people moved on and some are still happy here.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
24 Jul 12
they come and go choy... and glad you are here to stay there are ones who cannot just look at mylot the way we do
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
24 Jul 12
As long as I like how things are going here, I guess I have no reason to leave.
@shibham (17022)
• India
23 Jul 12
Hi dear... I was also absent here for couple of days. I had some reasons there. As you have not mentioned my name, i do hope you did not missed me that way. It is true that this is not the same platform that i joined 4 years ago. less than 5% friends are active still today. As now a days, i am not so active here, so i am not so aware about others presence, yet, i think about some friends who were active members here in this platform. I do hope the will come back to join us very soon overcoming all the issues related to them. Have a nice time.
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@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
shiby I did not miss you...but I am waiting for my sari and ticket
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
24 Jul 12
oh shibham, i dont mean it that way, since i have you seen and even posted in your discussion about animals then i know for sure you are fine..
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@KrauseHome (35514)
• United States
24 Jul 12
Thanks for mentioning me my friend, and it is quite comforting to know people like you care and have missed me. It has been an interesting month with everything going on right after I get back from my vacation. I do know though that there are people like you who miss me, and care. Yes, this site is like family, and even if we never meet the closeness we feel is worth while as well.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
24 Jul 12
i am glad you are feeling a whole lot better now Ms.Tina, yes even tho you guys are like miles away i feel like somehow i know you
@marie2052 (3697)
• United States
24 Jul 12
Bless your heart Jazel. You always make my day when I can find time to come on. I have been caught up knitting again. Daughter having another baby 3rd one in three years. Seriously she has got to stop this cause I am getting tired of knitting, and get tired and forget to come to mylot Well the husband is fixed now so thats one problem solved as long as they stay together LOL I have made 3 for Trinity, 1 for Lexi and now one for the new baby Gage coming in September. So when you do not hear from me you can figure I am all messed up with needles and yarn. today took tink to get him declawed. he had to stay overnight at the Vets. Now I miss my little guy. Anyway dear friend every time I see your avatar I know to smile! you radiate sunshine. Huggs and a beautiful night to you.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
24 Jul 12
Hi Ms. Marie, it always nice to hear from you too. Wow you are must be pretty good at knitting too as you were able to make a lot for your grandkids! but yes she ought to stop too, 3 kids in 3 years, 3 in a row! that is quite hard to handle and quite handful i tell you. Mine is 2 and a half years apart and yes we really decided to stop lol as it is hard financially too. Tell your daughter i love her kid's names, Trinity, Lexi and Gage, cute names! I hope you get your little tink back too so you have a companion there.
@lynboobsy11 (11346)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
Being six years here at Mylot I missed a lot friends and sometimes I also thought about them and wonder how is them. I know some of them are already old and sick but Im still praying that they are still alive and healthy although I never saw most of them being active. I also have two friends here that are not active here but I still have contact with them on Facebook and yahoo. Some friends change their names when they sign in again.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
24 Jul 12
Yes people do come and go indeed, i actually also have some mylot friends who are also in facebook, i get to see them on facebook but rarely as i spend more time here