Do you have any ghuts to say that your are failure

@yugasini (12816)
Anantapur, India
July 24, 2012 7:03am CST
hi mylot friends, is there ghuts to any body to say that you are failure person,but but i does have that much ghuts to say, though i have facility to study in school , i have not learned well, i could not become good son for my parents, i may not be a good friend to my friends, i may not good husband to my wife, i may not good father to my children,i may not be a good business man,even i may not be good lover to my love,but i can say that what i have worked in a company for 33 months i have worked sincerely,that i can say and in future i may be or may not a good father- in- law to my daughter- in- lass
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@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
24 Jul 12
Hello, yes I have the balls to say myself - you could do much better. And I don't feel ashamed of being little lazy. What worry me more is that my present failure is causing financial problems, which we must delay instead of paying right now, just because I have been little lazier lately and haven't done my job well.
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
24 Jul 12
hi suggar, thanks for the response,do not worry, what ever job you are doing do it sincerely,then only you will be succeed in life, i have worked for 33 months in 1986, still i remember that days i have worked, i never wasted an hour with chit chat in the office, where ever i am i cannot sit idle,wish to do some thing, have a nice day
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@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
24 Jul 12
I am working from home, so it gives me freedom to choose when I would love to do this and that. Also the same for the work at home. But it is summer, it's so so hot that I find myself more lazy than ever.
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@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
24 Jul 12
hi suggar, thanks for the response, now itself i have seen your blog "Transport" what is "Novini.bg" there is scroll of figures down of your above mentioned site, here hot is gone and last week full of rains, now the climate was cooled, any how compare to western countries, hot is common to us, your blog transport is very nice, have a nice day
@Raine38 (9117)
• United States
24 Jul 12
I can admit it, but of course I wouldn't yell it or admit it to a lot of people. I only tell it to those closest to me and usually in a small voice as I feel so small. Looking back, its okay. I'm not perfect and life isn't always easy for successes. It tends to throw crap even to the undeserving that when you got hit, you go down.
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@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
24 Jul 12
hi raine, thanks for the response, yes i too agree with you, life is not in our hands, just like man proposes, god disposes, that according to the fate our life will turns to be failure and success, and i have observed this several times in my life, so i trust my fate and luck only in my life, according to that my life will move, have a nice day
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@riempie9 (1026)
• South Africa
24 Jul 12
That is why you are being called a failure because you fail to put people on their place. No one has the right to call someone else a failure? It is just plain rude and you should stay away from negative people in your life. Stand up and defend yourself even if you lose the friendship; it is not worth it and not good to have friends like that in your life.
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
24 Jul 12
hi reimpie, thanks for the response, but till my friends love me,once any body start friendship with me they never forget me, still i have friends since 48 years, what ever the failures i have faced, all that are according to my fate and luck only, i trust luck and fate ,according to that our life will move, have a nice day
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@Buchi_bulla (8299)
• India
26 Jul 12
By accepting a failure and thinking over it and analysing it thoroughly and identifying as to where we went wrong and correcting the mistakes will bring a success story from all of us. Why to cry over spilt milk? Correct your mis deeds now and try to go forward.
• India
26 Jul 12
Failures are stepping stones for success.
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
27 Jul 12
hi buchibulla madam, thanks for the response, i am not worrying or crying on my mistakes, i have not done any thing , what ever the things happened in my life are according to the fate and luck only, i know this very well but people does not accept it, if they achieved they say that is their own talent,if some thing goes wrong , that will be thrown on others or fate,so i trust fate and luck only, that only two things will lead my life,have a nice day
@riempie9 (1026)
• South Africa
25 Jul 12
I have made mistakes in my life but I am not a failure and I try with God all the time. I measure failure and success by how my life is progressing and do not allow myself to think of failure. I believe therefore I am. Change your thinking into positive thoughts.
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
25 Jul 12
hi riempie, thanks for the response, i am not thinking my failures, that is written fate, so those were happened, i trust fate and luck, i have experienced several times about the fate and luck to me, so what ever thing i am doing that is according to the fate and luck only, there is a proverb, with permission of got even ant could not bit,so every thing is pre determined,have a nice day
@squallming (1777)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 12
Well, I am glad that you admitted what things you failed at. I am of no difference. I failed in many things too. I failed to live in a good and happy family, I failed to stop my parents from getting divorced, I failed to persuade my youngest brother to not change his religion, I failed to unite all my family members together, I failed to be a good driver, I failed to be an ideal man for my girlfriend. Yet I successed in loving my girlfriend with all my heart till the end of life.
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
24 Jul 12
hi squallming, thanks for the response, really your life also just like me, but all these happened in my life and your life is not our mistakes, according to fate and luck only these things happened, to us, the failures are ill fates and the happiness we have got is our luck, now i am not thinking about my failures, those are happened like that,have a nice day
@besweet (7230)
• Greece
24 Jul 12
Hello! Admitting our failures is the first step in moving forward and trying to become the best. All people have failed in something and it's definitely a big step to admit that you haven't achieved what you wanted. But this shouldn't lead to dissapointment, this should make us try harder to succeed with our other goals! You can't quit because you've failed a few times. If you are not a good friend, try to be better, if you want to be a better parent, start with small steps and you'll achieve it! It's never too late to change your life!
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
24 Jul 12
hi besweet, thanks for the response, i am not thinking that this is my complete failure, i trust fate and luck only, so i hope all these are according to our fate and luck only, neither i say that all success i have achieved is my own ability and all failures are the reason of others or god, but either it may be failure or success is according to our fate and luck only, have a nice day
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@asliah (11149)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
hi, for me, i could say that i can still have guts to say my failure because i know i can still do it for the second chance,there is no problem to have failure in our life because we can use it to our future and to help us to be more successful in our life.