Expected good reaction, yet i was wrong!
By debbygirl
@debbygirl (213)
Philippines
July 24, 2012 11:29pm CST
I have a lot of friend in my work place but i have two girl friends whose close to me. When i already missed my period i already knew I'm pregnant to my second child. My son now was 1year and 2 months. I was so excited to tell them my situation so when we met at my work during our past time i told them "hey, i think i'm pregnant (with a happy face)" not expecting their reaction. The two of them told me "What?!" the other one said "Your joking i rebuke your word!" with those mad face.
I got hurt and got affected and started to ask myself... whats wrong with me being pregnant? I am married! Glad that i have a lot of friend who are happy for me than the only two of them who told me and showed me those hurtful reaction.
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6 responses
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
25 Jul 12
Well congratulation on your pregnancy...but there are two reasons
you got that reaction. They are either jealeous and/or they are
not really your friends...maybe you have shared to much information
with them for them to react like that...
But believe me if they were your real friends they would not have
reacted like that without some underline reason..
@debbygirl (213)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
yeah you are both right.. I think it's too dangerous giving so much information to someone specially if they're not a real friend.:)
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
Was that me? Of course not! Im a true friend of yours and in fact, i jumped for joy upon the news while reading your blog about it. Lol! I was realley happy and a bit jealous but im waiting for the time too for me. Next year! First things first so i could take care of my baby well.
@debbygirl (213)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
no its not you! i know you love me :) that's why your my big sister though your not big, i'm bigger than you :)
Yes! i'm excited to hear that news soon! :)
my son and daughter will have a playmate with your future son/daughter and that's exciting!
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
That`s mean of them. Don`t worry about them. I still don`t understand why would they react in a way they do but don`t worry maybe they just thought it would be difficult for you. But anyways, like you said many people are happy for you so why bother with these two. Don`t stress out, it may be bad for the baby. Congratulations to you and good Luck !! 
@debbygirl (213)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
thank you! yes im trying to stay cool with them.. they're still my friends after all. :)
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
25 Jul 12
Congrats! my friend after some months you will be again mother. Dont give the attention on those friends and dont talk anything with them. Leave it and enjoy your pregnancy this is god gift. Some has more and some has not single.
@debbygirl (213)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
thank you! you are right that's why im thankful.. i hope its girl! anyway, any gender will do:)
@Gautam1002 (730)
• India
25 Jul 12
That was pretty rude of them. I think that is the most awaited news of a married couple. Why should someone give such a weird reaction to such a good news. Anyway I congratulate you for the really memorable moment of yours'. I would advise you not to pay attention to their views. I do not how good a friend are they, but their reaction was not certainly one would expect for. Be happy for your second child. Take care of him/her. ALL IZ WELL
@debbygirl (213)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
haha yes! thank you! i will remember all your advice's.. :)
@yuekim123 (161)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
Hello, I agree that there's nothing wrong in being pregnant and for the fact that you are already married. I think they were just shocked by the news. They don't really mean their reactions towards it. Furthermore, if they are your true friends, they would have apologized to you and eventually be happy. Did they? If not, well, I don't really know why they reacted violently in the first place :)
@debbygirl (213)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
thank you! my husband talked to them.. and they did apologize.. :)and i forgave them.
