The EX Problem....

@mr_pearl (5037)
India
July 26, 2012 2:04am CST
Hi, my dear fellows.. Its a puzzle, has remained unsolved for years. It is like, who came first- 'the Hen or the Egg?'... LOL... Well, at least for me, it is an unsolved mystery. For the last two days, I've been lying on the bed coz of fever. I did not even go to office. Today I'm feeling better, so going to work. Just now I saw my first love. I'm in the cab, so couldn't stop to say HI. I'm pretty sure though, it was kind of hallucination coz of fever. But it got me thinkin'. What would I really do, if she came in front me? What if, she really felt sorry for what she did to me? What'd you do? It'll be hard for me to accept.. But I'm a little weak and I'll give in... How'd you react?
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@oindy54 (3446)
• India
26 Jul 12
Hi Do you still retain some feelings for her? For me facing my ex would be a problem. We did not have an amicable break up so I would not feel comfortable facing him. So far it has gone well and I have not seen him for many years. But honestly I do worry if I would end up seeing him at a theater or mall. I am happy with my current boyfriend and I would not like uncomfortable memories cropping up again. I had pretty strong reasons to break up with him.
@mr_pearl (5037)
• India
26 Jul 12
Break-ups are not usually happy one, Miss. Even with mutual consent, they turn ugly for both of the partners. I don't know how will I react, if I meet her accidentally. It'll be awkward for both of us, and I'm sure she's smart enough to get away with it...
@512771751 (1096)
• China
26 Jul 12
The ex problem is a hard problem that we come up with. I hate my first love and he really hurts me so deeply. When I see my ex, I just say hi to him as to my ordionary friends.
@mr_pearl (5037)
• India
26 Jul 12
Well... I hate my first love too... I was also deeply hurt and yet there's no getting away from those raw feelings. I wonder, if a simple HI would work with me, it must be more than that... Its kind of a mocking, there's no gettin' away...
@mensab (4208)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
for me, my first love is not a problem. i consider it as a blessing for making me feel good all those times when i still had that apple in my eyes to her. well, i might be a bit excited and nervous if ever i would see my first love. but iw ould welcome the moment because i wanted to see her and talk to her. all these times, what is happening to her.
@mr_pearl (5037)
• India
26 Jul 12
Perhaps, I'd the same feelings as yours. Or maybe, I was missing the care that she used to show whenever I wasn't well.. Not to mention, I showed the same care for her... The EX problem, for me, is truly the most difficult one... God help!
@kalav56 (11503)
• India
26 Jul 12
You just won't learn your lessons.Will you?Weakness or no weakness, what is over is over.She is not your blood relative, a mother or a brother /sister, but one who came in and broke your heart and peace.Now, why should you hallucinate about your ex?
@mr_pearl (5037)
• India
26 Jul 12
Hi.. I really don't know why I was hallucinating... We used to stay together. Maybe, I missed the care she showed for me, when I got sick a couple of times. You know, it just does not go away. I've tried and tried... I stay alone and there was no one to look after, I guess thats the reason... :-(
• United States
26 Jul 12
Hi. I am glad you are feeling better. My answer is different. I am with the man I am Suppose to be with so if my ex came back , I would be polite but I wuld tell him there is No way I Want him in my life. In fact I would thank him for leaving because now I am with my soulmate. And then I would walk away. But if I was single and he was truly sincere and wanted to try again? I don't know what I would do.