Committed?

@missybear (11395)
United States
July 29, 2012 5:06pm CST
People always say they in a committed relationship, If you with another person doesn't that mean you're committed......and I'm not talking hoochy mama"s What do you consider committed?
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@hsofyan (3448)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
30 Jul 12
I think the commitment is a promise to myself to keep something.
@missybear (11395)
• United States
30 Jul 12
Very good statement
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@hsofyan (3448)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
1 Aug 12
Thank you
@silverfox09 (4727)
• United States
30 Jul 12
I think a committed relationship is when your only seeing each other . Committed to each other no one else invited . That's what I think committed relationship means .
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@missybear (11395)
• United States
30 Jul 12
That's what it means in my book too
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@JenInTN (27564)
• United States
29 Jul 12
Yes..If I am "with" someone...I'm committed. I guess I might be old fashioned but if I am seeing someone on a regular basis, that is pretty much committed for me. If I found out someone else was in the mix, I would briskly move on.
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@missybear (11395)
• United States
30 Jul 12
That's the way I feel too
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• United States
29 Jul 12
I don't think just because a person is with someone they are committed. Although I think your version of woman is willing to be in a committed relationship also. I know I am in one with adrain. it feelsjust right for me.
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@missybear (11395)
• United States
29 Jul 12
If it feels right and you are happy then it's all good
@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
29 Jul 12
Committed =mental hospital
@missybear (11395)
• United States
30 Jul 12
That could happen anytime
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@MsTickle (24994)
• Australia
3 Aug 12
Oh well said Dawn!! BRAVO! May I use it?
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@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
3 Aug 12
Certainly!
@GardenGerty (105226)
• United States
29 Jul 12
If I am in a committed relationship I am not looking for the next one. Oh, and in my way of thinking I am monogamous. No cheating, plan to be there long term.
@missybear (11395)
• United States
30 Jul 12
Same here
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@MsTickle (24994)
• Australia
3 Aug 12
Hi GG...to me it means that both parties are committed to the relationship...not just one half.
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@GardenGerty (105226)
• United States
3 Aug 12
Hi ya, Ms Tickle, you are so right.
@MsTickle (24994)
• Australia
3 Aug 12
I think the difference is that some folk live together and share some things and take their relationship day by day. When in a committed relationship, folk will share everything and make plans to have a long term future together. That's basic of course. To each his own.
@missybear (11395)
• United States
3 Aug 12
Like the bear and I
@MsTickle (24994)
• Australia
3 Aug 12
Aww, two love bears.
@asliah (11148)
• Philippines
25 Oct 12
hi, committed to me means you are engage to other or someone,and once you are committed you are under in the control of your partner or you only have limited actions or limited decision,being committed in a relationship is more happening today but many of people don't like it.
@missybear (11395)
• United States
25 Oct 12
It's great if you're with the right peson
• United States
3 Sep 12
commited to me means that you are dedicated to that one person loyal to them in every way you put all of your energy into making that relationship work you make sacrifices for the sake of your partners happiness and trust that they will do the same for you My husband and I have been commited to one another for 15 years now yes there have been hard times , yes we have both thought about giving up but we stayed with it and worked it out because we are commited to each other and this marriage
@missybear (11395)
• United States
3 Sep 12
Sometimes you just have to work through some issues but if you together that long it's worth it
@Jennib1 (62)
• South Africa
30 Jul 12
To me being committed means there is a time in a casual relationship when two people decide to date each other exclusively until one or the other or both decide to terminate the relationship or wish to remain together till the end of their days. This applies to marriage as well. The only difference between dating and marriage is, that marriage makes the commitment more serious as it is done legally and officially in front of others and it is far more difficult and expensive to terminate.
@missybear (11395)
• United States
30 Jul 12
That's true, and that's why I won't get married again. been there done that once was enough. We've been together for 10 years now and neither 1 of us wants to get married again
• Indonesia
30 Jul 12
my consider is happines. If I feel happy with some1, I will decide to stay in commited relationship with him/her.
@missybear (11395)
• United States
30 Jul 12
As long as you happy you might as well be with the person and no one else.