Oh Boy my parents have my daughter today

By C
@ShyBear88 (17216)
United States
July 30, 2012 9:21am CST
After spending the weekend with my MIL my daughter is now going to be down the road and at my parents house for today. I'm not sure how many day's this week my parents are getting my daughter but I know all day today since my MIL is working. I was talking to my mom last night telling her to not leave my daughter alone with my SIL because one is crazy. My mom explained that my dad would every upset if my SIL ignores my nephew just because my daughter is there while I'm on bed rest. She already ignores the poor child every day and won't do anything with him unless my parents pay for it. If anyone knows or fallows my discussions then you would know that my nephew is Autistic so change some times bothers him but he loves my daughter like she is his little sister. My SIL told him that he has to play tea party with my daughter. i told my mom oh please don't let her do that for sure. My daughter is only 18 months so really she has no interested in playing tea party. I told my mom she is a typical 1 year old she loves to play with cars, trucks, legos and balls so all the boy toys that they have in there house is prefect they don't have to get her anything special that is girl only. She is use to having all nurteral toys where it can be boy or girl with the exception of certain toys that she has picked out herself that is girl or that people have bought her. My mom said it will really make my dad mad if my SIL ignores her own child just to play with my daughter and will say something if he see's it. My mom told him go a head because she isn't going to stop my dad on this one for sure she would do the same thing. It's going to be and interesting day over at my parents house I hope a war doesn't break out in there over my daughter being there and another mother not being a mom. I didn't ask nor want my SIL helping my mom out with my daughter and she can think all she wants if my mom can't watch my daughter that she is going to get my daughter because that isn't happening not even when I'm dead. My mom knows that my dad is good at watch my daughter so I'm fine with that and if she needs to there is more then enough family in the same area that is willing to take my daughter for her for a little bit if need it.
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• United States
30 Jul 12
I think it is sad to a mother who will pass up time with her own child to play with another. But,looking on the other end she might need a break from the same routine day in and day out. I would be very pleased to know someone loved to be around my child. I reallyhope no war breaks out while the kids are there as well. It would not be right to have them both in the middle like this.
@ShyBear88 (17216)
• United States
30 Jul 12
She doesn't do anything, but sit on her fat butt all day long. Really she has been doing the same stuff for over the past 5 years she isn't a mom but a nightmare. Any time anyone else is around she ignore her own child since the day he was born. Other wise it wouldn't bother my parents or the rest of our family. If she was a mom and did what a mom was suppose to do when they stay home other then just sit there and play with her cell phone or computer all day then my parents wouldn't have to spend extra money to get my nephew out of the house. She doesn't take him any where so with my daughter being there that means she will ignore him like he isn't even there and just see her and bother my daughter and try to break her routine. When we where there for Christmas she wouldn't leave my daughter alone but would totally ignore anything my nephew was doing good or bad. I'm sure a fight would break out because she isn't mom she doesn't know how to be a mom and she doesn't even try to be mom. This is also the 30 year old women that won't talk to me because I won't change my son's middle name. She is just childish and only cares about herself and what she wants and nobody else.