I Just Don't Think It's Right...Part 2
July 31, 2012 8:01am CST
So I just wanted to update everyone about the pregnant girl doing drugs and such... Well her boyfriend broke up with her yesterday. He said he was tired of trying to change her because she does not want to change herself. He got frustrated with her yesterday because he caught her doing something she should not have been doing...And he said she brings him down with his faith. So, if she doesn't straighten up he will get full custody when that baby is born. I feel bad for him and the baby, definitely not her. Do you think he made the right decision to walk away?
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• United States
31 Jul 12
Yes. The sad part is his thought that he could change her in the first place. It is tragic if he thought if he had a baby with her, she would change. Ah No! Like everything , real change comes from within and it is a personal choice. You can't bully a person or try to love them into it. If she is belittling him and he can't take that , he Should leave! Getting custody maybe hard but if he wants it , he should go for it. The scary part is that the baby maybe harmed by her behavior.Time will tell.
• Jacksonville, Florida
1 Aug 12
Yeah he is young and still thinks he could change the world. Who am I to kill that dream? I wish I could change the world too, I just know better now that I can't. He has not learned that yet... I think he did think if he got her pregnant she would not want to hurt the baby. He was wrong for thinking that though. Now she is hurting herself AND the baby! =( She is definitely holding him back from things and he is tired of feeling like her dad instead of her love. Her own parents want nothing at all to do with her.
• United States
2 Aug 12
She may not want the baby. Or, she doesn't know that what she takes in , the baby takes in. Or worse , she may not even care! Poor guy. He needs to find someone else. And when the baby comes , they could take the baby away from the birth mother. I say this if and Only if she doesn't change. she may change Who knows. Many a good mother didn't take care of herself during the pregnancy but turn themselves into damn good mothers. Time will tell.
31 Jul 12
I believe that when people doesn't reach the point of understanding each other and making the best for themselves having in mind that the best for themselves is also the best for the other one, everyone has to be free to quit. Sometimes I feel that way, when my boyfriend doesn't pay attention to high higher blood pressure or also his higher weight, also I feel that he doesn't put too much attention into making a better thing about his kidney problems like stopping some foods which are not good for people who has this health problem. But I guess I accepted and liked him like that since we started, so I have no power to leave him now, 3 years after we have been together.