I need to restart

@Suggar (3612)
Bulgaria
July 31, 2012 3:23pm CST
Lately we are having so much troubles that I would like to restart my mind. At first we didn't have money to spend the half of this month. Then we took small loans of friends, now our jobs doesn't go very well and we will be unable to give back the money we owe at the moment. My boyfriend had his "top seller" account in one website where he sell services repaired into normal account, because he gave an idea to someone who wanted to make similar website as the one where my bf was top seller and the admins of the website considered it like breaking the rules. It was little strange, because it wasn't written as a rule breaking. Also my boyfriend didn't accept the order to make such website, just said that such software must be bought by anywhere, because it's not that easy as the client thought. Tomorrow we are waiting some cash. And I have the urgent need to relax and restart my mind of all this problems. It was so disappointing for me, because when I feel like that I don't feel like doing my job or anything else. I think we will put a fresh new start tomorrow, with a great meal, some beer and hopefully a meeting with friends for our second beach shower I think if we do all of this the life will continue with it's normal rhythm and everything will get fixed by itself. Do you have moments like that and how do you say goodbye to all of your bad luck?
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@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
31 Jul 12
There are ups and downs in life. The best thing is to keep our faith and not rely on our own understanding and power. We must ask blessings, help and guidance from above. So, the next step would be easier to go and we can leap forward.
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@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
31 Jul 12
Thanks for sharing Jaiho, I feel it more like a physical restart.
@Cherish14 (2695)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
i get this feeling most of the time lately. i feel like i have made very bad decisions in my life. i tell myself that i just need to learn from them but the fact that it bothers me a lot makes me sick. oh how i wish i could really restart my life, go back to those times, turn back time. it is even harder when you don't have something good to look forward to......
@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
1 Aug 12
Try to relax a bit. If you don't move on, you will be stuck at this place.
@Cherish14 (2695)
• Philippines
1 Aug 12
yeah i already am stuck but yeah i need to move on. first i need to get a better job so i can save and move out...
@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
1 Aug 12
I hope it will happen for you very very soon. I know the economic sucks at most of the places.
• United States
1 Aug 12
Sounds like the wheel of life. We're like that one day our sales our up and the next their down. We keep explaining to people that is the way it has been with us since 2008 and it just keeps getting worse. This was the worse month as far as our sales goes that we've had. We don't dwell on it though. We know that it takes time to build a business and to have faith in the universe to provide for us. So far we have a warm house over our heads and we have clothes on our backs and we have food in our bellies and that's good. Just keep saying life is good and give thanks for all the blessings. Keep your chin up the sun will come out tomorrow -- it's only a day away!
@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
1 Aug 12
Thanks.
• India
1 Aug 12
Hi friend, your thought is good, i agree with you, we must do our work with a fresh mind and mood. I have some bad times in my life and face it with my confidence, we have the ability to say good bye to our bad time, we must take proper rest and plan about our new idea to solve our issues
@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
1 Aug 12
You are right, the confidence is a great thing, but when you see your world destroying slowly, the positive thoughts disappear sometimes. Thanks for sharing.
@ryanong (9697)
• Vietnam
1 Aug 12
Well, life goes up and down so that i do hope you guys can pass this hard time soon. It is not easy when you guys don't have money this time because we need it for our living expenses. Just take it easy and everything will be ok soon. Best wish for you guys!!!
@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
1 Aug 12
Thank you, I think it will happen today. Today the day is planned.
@CTHanum (8254)
• Malaysia
1 Aug 12
I am sure everyone have moments like that. The difference is how we face and settle it with different ways. I don't believe that when something happen it will get fixed by itself unless if we take action to fix it. It won't get fixed if we just let it be like that. It can turn to worst if we don't take any action to settle it.(^^)
@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
1 Aug 12
Hello sis, we will get better. Today some cleaning, it will make us feel better.
@GemmaR (8527)
31 Jul 12
It's so hard when we feel as though there's nothing to go our way. What you need to do is make a plan about how you can save money. Things from saving energy around the home to buying different foods when you shop. Every little step that you take can help, and every penny is another penny that you can use to try and pay off your debts. It might be hard, but make sure that you ask for help from your friends if you need it, as this is something that will help you in the long term if it's something that you would like to do.
@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
31 Jul 12
Thank you so much for putting efforts to give me positive advices. It is very nice of you. Well exactly what I need for a day is to rest my mind and to set it up into planning what I can do to change the situation for future time.