The ideal age for marriage ( for both: girls & guys )

@best2011 (210)
August 2, 2012 7:56pm CST
Hello everyone !!! hope all of you will be doing fine ... actually im doing a kind of survey i just want to know that in your opinion what is the ideal age for marriage for both girls and boys .. and why do you think so .. i will appreciate all the replies .. thanks
13 responses
• Indonesia
17 Sep 12
I think 23 for woman and 25 for man because both start to be more mature person. I heard that 21 is ideal age for woman to have pregnancy, but I thought that most of 21 woman still wants to have fun and enjoy her life and not ready with kind of commitment -depend on character too
@Pavan_m01 (115)
• India
10 Aug 12
According to me Boys should get married once they establish themselves, After getting settled down in there life. Means arrond at the age of 28-30. By this time most of the Boys will get matured mentally and are capable of taking desicions. Girls should get married arrond 24-26 years of age. After the studies and after getting getting to know something to know about Life, Adjustment, sacrifice and some more ethical values.
@ally12 (1204)
• Philippines
4 Aug 12
For me age should not be the bases for readiness in getting married but the right time for both of you and the right time is when you know you are tired of staying single anymore when you know you are much willing to give up all your freedom and commit yourself wholly to someone. Marriage is also a sacrifice, a sacrifice of living a life different from what you get used. So even you are 30, 40 or 60 if you cant commit yourself then better stay single your whole life.
• Philippines
4 Aug 12
Well, as long as they're both in legal age (18y/o for girls and 21y/o for men), they can have their marriage. But I think it depends on what culture or religion they're into. I guess there are differences. I was only talking on the side of Catholics.
@sarah77 (52)
• Pakistan
4 Aug 12
boys = when they establish Girls = when they complete their studies & must be self dependent
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
Before getting married, I think you should be both financially stable because in my opinion, in being married you should provide your family their optimum need. But for child bearing which is after being married I guess it is 25-34 years old being less than or more than that age will put the woman health at risk when she will bear a child. Good luck to your survey
@Hillxuan (77)
• China
3 Aug 12
in my opinion the ideal age is 27 years old.but now ,i change my ideal.i don't want to get marriage.before the love let me sadness and despair.but i still hope they happiness who will get marry and have got marriage.may be someday ,the prince of mine will change my ideal.hope the day coming soom
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
hi....!! for girls maybe it should be 25-29 years old because if you are reach 30 years old and above perhaps you are high risk for pregnancy, my clinical instructor told us if we marry at age of 25-29 we have a higher tendency that our child will have an intelligent mind, and for the boys 28-32 years of age it is better that the boys are older than girls because they much understand some girls because if changes of mood. some people marry at young age or older age maybe it depends on the culture, or they just want to marry as long us they want. hahaha... it's depend on the couple.
• China
3 Aug 12
In my opinion,as for boys,I think the best age for marrige is after 28,because at the age boys will become more mature and responsible,and the income may be can raise a family at that time. For girls,I think the best age for marrige is before 25 but can not younger than 18,because at that time girls can give birth to a child more easily and your baby will be more healthy.
3 Aug 12
hi! i don't think there is an ideal age when it comes to marriage. entering into marriage and committing yourself as husband and wife is a bond between two people. both of you should be ready physically. emotionally, spiritually and financially... there are a lot of marriages that fails because they thought that being in love is just it. marrying is a decision... a decision to be inlove... to be loved and a decision to marry mr. right.
@kenshin2143 (1882)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
Many people would really say that before 25 years of age would be the ideal age for marriage for they say it is the peak of a persons urge to look for a partner, however, those are just some humors told by people who are older than me. But personally, there is not such thing as an ideal age for marriage for people are really unique and the call for marriage does not come to us at a certain age or time.
@silverfox09 (4727)
• United States
3 Aug 12
Religion play a big role in the legal age for people to be consider adult in various part of the world . If we had one religion this would be a better place . My opinion the ideal age would be legal age based on your country . I would say 21+ I dont think nothing is wrong with getting married young because you have the option of not getting married . If I was to married the person I love it wouldn't matter what age I am once I know I am in love and dont mind being with that person for the rest of time .
@paulli3 (312)
• China
3 Aug 12
i think the ideal age for marriage is 28-30, i think we should have a good career when we get married becuase we need to support a family, so if we marry too early, maybe we can't get enough money to take a good family life, and when yo are 28-30, we have enough money and rich experience, so we can marry and we will have a good life, i think 28-30 is suitable.