Just Wait Til He Needs Help W/ Anything After a Surgery/Injury

@NailTech (6892)
United States
August 7, 2012 6:33pm CST
I think a few of you know who I'm referring to. I hope that one day he is in dire need of someone to help him do a simple thing like water plants (or just something similar) and then I think of many excuses not to help him do this easy task, that would certainly rectify how I feel about him right now. If it weren't for my parents making excuses for him too I would feel less like hanging myself too right now. SCREAM.
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@celticeagle (112984)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Aug 12
KARMA. Keep your eye on KARMA. He will get his at some point. I have learned from 60 years on the planet that when you think you are ready to kill, mame or otherwise do harm on someone that I do a grand sigh of relief thining about....yes, KARMA. People can do as they please and it doesn't bother me quite as much as it would have if it weren't for KARMA.
@NailTech (6892)
• United States
8 Aug 12
Ha, I wouldn't kill, mame or otherwise harm anyone else. But I do believe in Karma, it just takes forever with some. My neighbor on the corner here is living proof of it too.
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@celticeagle (112984)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Aug 12
For me I know that Karma is a gibben. It will happen at some point and so I feel much better about anything that comes down. And I know something they don't know. Hee hee.
@KrauseHome (32829)
• United States
8 Aug 12
It is sad when there continues to be people like this and everyone just is always on their side even if you are the one needing the help. I have been there myself in yrs past and it is frustrating. Makes you go well one day they will need help and maybe no one will be there or want to help them so let me see how they would feel then. Just remember things will not always be this way so if you pray seek god for help and in the end you will fimd it all worth your pain.
@NailTech (6892)
• United States
8 Aug 12
Thank you Krausehome, I pray everyday for things to change for me. I know there has to be more action than just praying too on my part perhaps but it is all I can do right now. He probably thinks after my parents are gone I'll be doing almost everything for him like my mom does but he's got another thing coming.
@911Ricki (13602)
• Canada
8 Aug 12
Are you talking about your brother? But I agree if he wont help you or anyone else wait until he needs to help and throw it all back at him. My siblings are very selfish as well, and I just chuckle at the time they will need something and noone will go running.
@NailTech (6892)
• United States
8 Aug 12
Yea, that wonderful brother of mine. Spoiled and selfish as he is. I just can't figure him out, his life revolves his TV shows, it's sad really. When I had my parents helping me clean up my grandparents house before we were selling it he was at home. Watching his TV. As per usual, many years ago even. Day after day this TV thing is all he cares about. What kind of person watches that much television. And if it's not that he is sleeping, most of the time. I blame some of it on his horrible diet, he never outgrew how he hates most vegetables and loves everything thats bad for you calling it "good food".
• Indonesia
7 Aug 12
Cool down I don't know who you're referring to but take it easy, enjoy your life and let him do what he want to do. Don't let him irritates your day :)
@NailTech (6892)
• United States
7 Aug 12
I'm just venting again, just don't know who to talk to about it and feel sooooo desparate sometimes. I mean it isn't exactly manual labor to take 20 minutes of your time and put some water on some flowers, some of which he even purchased for my mother to put around. My parents making excuse after excuse and even blaming me for having too many flowers is ridiculous. We always have the same amount of plants here and I didn't buy them ALL, either. I can't lug the heavy hose around well, this is the only problem I have wit watering them. At least my dad offered to water them but I said I just need help now to put the hose away. I'm praying it does rain as they said for three days Thurs., Fri., and Sat. cause that is the only way the poor gardens of mine will be taken care of. Unless I hire someone to do it, sheesh.