It's Unbelieavable....!!!!!!!!!!!

@Dassodils (2013)
India
August 8, 2012 3:48pm CST
Hello friends.. I hope that all are fine.. As I said that I am in quarrel with my brother,now also like to share something about him..Now he have no time to spend with me..He is busy always..I only see him at the time of starting class..And while taking classes he is not that listening because of that he joined in a bad group of boys..I am sure that they will destroy him and his studies..While taking classes he and his friend always murmuring something..and smiling..I can't here that things..I think that's a very bad habit.One day I will surely complaint this to our professor..Before one or 2 years he was caring me like no one can do..I was thanking god to gave me such a sweet brother..But now on everyday,I ask that"God,Why you made a chance to interact with him and became so close???" I think that he was acting in that days..Now I am alone.. And I am sure that he will surely realize me one day even it's after my death,I am happy...Do you have such bitter experience???
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11 responses
• United States
9 Aug 12
Howdy Dassodils: Your brother might be playing with you just to get a reaction out of you. It's called getting your goat down in these parts. If you didn't react so negatively he probably wouldn't be doing this. Besides its alright to have disagreements. Just because you're family doesn't mean you all will see eye to eye. He may have his own way of studying and you may have yours. You could be like me serious and study all the time and I got straight As. Everyone else in my family played and they all got Cs. I'm the only one out of five that went off to college. Yes, it can be lonely at the top but it will pay off. Just keep civil and try not to let your brother get to you and don't take anything anyone says personally. Sometimes being too sensitive gets the best of us. He probably means nothing of what he is saying or doing to you -- like I said he's playing with you to get you to react. Take care my friend and happy studying. You'll succeed I just know you will!
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
10 Aug 12
When I entered in to the final year, I decided to study well and score good marks..But he is just killing me everyday..I wonder that how he is celebrating this..He is happy now with his friends..I can't to leave him alone..Because he is my brother..I want him..I don't want to live with out his presence..
@ravisivan (14051)
• India
10 Aug 12
You get bad feelings because you see him every day in the house and is not talking to you. Will it be possible for him to be sent to a hostel and you also go to another section in the college? it may be difficult. When you do not see him before your eyes you may not be feeling that bad. Just think he is there in another place in a good condition. this thinking may make you concentrate on studies. You can study during second year also well so that you get good marks and be eligible to take competitive exams.
@hsofyan (3452)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
9 Aug 12
Don't worry about him. Don't you let it manage your life. Remember, God does not determine one's fate, but by one's own. While you are right, stand up and walk straight. My prayer for you. GBU
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
10 Aug 12
Thank you friend..Before some days,I thought that he is with me..and nothing to worry..But now I feel that I am alone..Nothing to say..I am alone in this life..
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@hsofyan (3452)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
13 Aug 12
No, you are not alone. You have parents and many friends. And, most important is that we have God.
• India
9 Aug 12
First give attention to your studies and your goals. After that concentrate on other things. If you do well in your studies and succeed automatically it indirectly helps your brother also to study. If a person in a family is studying well and another person is not like that parents will ask the resons then automatically your brother wil come out of bad friends and he knows his duties he will become your good brother. Pray god such day happen in your life. Nothing will be changed even if you die the condition will be worse more. Never feel alone and concentrate much time with some other books. Books are best companion for those who have less friends. It never teaches you wrong things. Concentrate in your stuides and you will become popular one day.
@lijoos (346)
• India
12 Aug 12
bad idea friends are not just to forget remmeber that. feel...realy bad
@ravisivan (14051)
• India
8 Aug 12
Dassodils: How come you are awake at 2 am in the morning. I know this problem has been going on in your mind and that has made you not to sleep. I know you like your brother very much. You also told once he is not close to you nowadays. How is it both of your are studying in the same class? Are you twin brother and sister. I wish he understands his responsibility towards studies, towards family and behave properly. I am happy you are concentrating on studies forgetting other friendship matters. good. study very well and score over 80% marks in all the subjects.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
10 Aug 12
I am trying to behave in a good manner..But when I look on his face,my eyes will be filled with tears..I feel that he is acting now..I pray to god that Please call me back from this world which my brother is not with me..It really aches..I don't want to live in such a bad world..
@sanjay91422 (2728)
• India
10 Aug 12
I don't what you can do in it. If he has got friends like that then you should try to give him better options. Ask the boys who are good in the class to make him their friends. If they agree then maybe he will get good.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
10 Aug 12
I have already said this to him..But now he is acting that I am nothing to him..It really make me sad..I remember some things while sitting idle..Then I will cry..my mom scolded me by seeing this.Thanks
@svjomboy (876)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
Thats sounds normal for brother and sisters, i have 2 brothers too sometimes get quarrel but thats a normal, if we are distance to each other we miss each other...But we really care as sister and brother...
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
10 Aug 12
Ya.. we were like that..But now he is very happy till didn't see me on a day..Now I miss him very much.....But he is avoiding me for his personal matters..Thanks
@thanks1961 (7049)
• India
9 Aug 12
In fact we don't know the value of our eye sight. Once we lose the eye sight, then only we will come to know how precious it is or it was. Any way, I cannot consider this as a quarrel, but just a friendly/brother-sister interaction and there is no value for revenege, enimity or vengence or anything like. It is just a daily habit and without these interactions how can we live. Khar ho-to, aisa? Kettitille?
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
10 Aug 12
Oh what is that Thanks??? I didn't heard that.. I think that I lost him... I just want to be a soul not want to live.. He will be very happy by that..
@kalav56 (11503)
• India
9 Aug 12
Dassodils! THe fault is yours.Your brother is growing up and if you keep acting the 'big sister' then he would not appreciate it.Only a few days ago you were all in praise of a brother who gifted you an IPOD. Now what has happened? Is he another brother of yours?
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
10 Aug 12
Ya..On that time I was surprised and I thought that he loves and cares me..But now,I don't want to remember that.. I am alone... :(
@litvillegas (1275)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
Hello Dassodils I'm so sad to know your present situation now. I hope I'm on your side to comfort you and ease the pain what you're feeling now. Even though I haven't experience the way you feel but I truly understand the things you're going through. I have a brother and I cared a lot for him. Same the way you care for your brother too. What about try to discuss this to him and approach him in a right time. Tell him the things that you've worried about and the changes he had.. Tell him that you love him so much and you care for him..Hopefully it'll works. Prayer also is a big help..Have a great day^_^
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
10 Aug 12
thank you friend.. I tried to recall him from that thing..But I failed..Now he have no time to speak anything to me..we both are in 2 worlds.. He will not come back to me..I am not saying that the love is bad..It's all people's personal matters..I am not saying that..But I just want some time to say him my tidings..He don't want to know all that things..He just want to do other things.. :(
@SaifuMak (61)
• India
30 Aug 12
You think that he was acting before you?? so Sad dassodils... Still he is with you.. Believe me. And remember one more thing.. "Life Always Will not Be a bed of Roses".. Accept good things and never bother about bad things happening around you..
@dorannmwin (36697)
• United States
11 Aug 12
I know that this is something that does hurt us from time to time because of the fact that there are times in all of our lives where we get mixed up with people that we don't believe are good for our family members. I know that this was the situation that I was in about twelve-thirteen years ago. Now I didn't let those people ruin me and as I look back on things today, I actually have to admit that because of the experiences that I had with those people in my life, I actually am a better person today.