oh come on, do not take it too personal...
By missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
Philippines
August 9, 2012 2:00am CST
when we joined here, sometimes absorbing the contexts would irritate us. but why take it too personal? when you want to help, then help without hearing or uttering any murmurs because that person is not following your instructions whatever the status he at the time may be. do not push too much to let them swallow as what your instructed to them. let them be because we are here with lots of differences. leave him have her own style in expressing oneself for a reason. gee, we are not here to have grudges. what is that for? i guess, based on my own opinion, kindly correct me if i am wrong, that we are struggling here to exert effort more than what we can do to EARN, and to have enjoyment is a plus factor for us.
calling newbies like me, let us be thankful for all of the members here (new or old) for exerting effort and for sharing some ideas to help us to grow successful like you upon your stays in mylot.
LEARN, EARN, ENJOY - be stress free 
6 responses
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
Unfortunately, this is every veteran's responsibility and with out there presence, this place would be prone to more abuse. i remember the last time when some one thought of it that way, they end up having harsh arguments with all the harsh words here and there until their accounts were finally deleted. when they don't follow, it smells trouble and lead to abuse and i have seen such abuse. I learned a lot from different people here, but i realized there's a limit too because some prefer to say bad words or hate / down on some one as they think it's part of the free speech here.
they will remind people seriously since they know what can happen if they don't follow. well, were not perfect, some people are nuts though, they're just not round anymore.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
oh yes, that is what we thankful about when someone will guide us to solve our inquiries and confusion. but taking the thing personally, well that is an another story to be considered of. generally, all of us here, newbies and old members need to be reminded or need reminders to avoid abuse of rights, like what you said. because everyone is subject to confusion and of wrong apprehension that may result to violation - 
. i was wrong about the thought that veterans cannot commit mistakes because of the level of familiarity in this site but find some that there reply to a post were deleted too. this thing confirmed me that the guidelines in here excuses no one.
thanks for joining the discussion letran. :)
. i was wrong about the thought that veterans cannot commit mistakes because of the level of familiarity in this site but find some that there reply to a post were deleted too. this thing confirmed me that the guidelines in here excuses no one.
thanks for joining the discussion letran. :)@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
some simply just have huge numbers of post but forget their place as role models. some just feels deleting their account and starting over like crazy
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@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
and mine is not moving at all - 
... maybe they do not like me or my maiden discussion 
- but wee... i am alright as long as i am okay and no one is bothering me or making my presence as their topic of discussion - hahah (i am just joking)...
i do not like to be a model too, that would risks too much effort to play here as a good patronage because i cannot be sure if i can perfect the guidelines in here. but i am sane enough not to hurt someone's emotion because it is not nice to feel being hurt by anyone. thank you letran this icon is my favorite from all smiley hehe
... maybe they do not like me or my maiden discussion - but wee... i am alright as long as i am okay and no one is bothering me or making my presence as their topic of discussion - hahah (i am just joking)...
i do not like to be a model too, that would risks too much effort to play here as a good patronage because i cannot be sure if i can perfect the guidelines in here. but i am sane enough not to hurt someone's emotion because it is not nice to feel being hurt by anyone. thank you letran this icon is my favorite from all smiley hehe
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
9 Aug 12
A lot of good here. Please ignore some are arrogant. Friendship, sharing, discussion and mutual help, is more important than arrogant. Sympathy and empathy is more needed here.
@thersdae_me (327)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
You are right missjahn, I agree with you on this. Thousands of people share ideas here in MyLot that we can't expect everyone to share the same feelings, the same thoughts, or react in the same way we want them too. I also give out a lot of comments, lengthy comments, that I do not expect to please all those who might come to read them. It's just different views and opinions coming from different people and different places. So no one needs to be too touchy or too personal, or else that person will not enjoy the experience here in MyLot.
In my case if I don't like the topic, I just skip it and move on to the other hundreds of topics awaiting for comments. If I post a topic and by chance, receive a comment that did not meet my own opinion, I don't make any more feedback and may just thank that person for sharing his or her own views. This saves me from feeling bad and I am able to post as much comment without grudges. Right, no taking personally on others comments... Happy Mylotting! =)
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@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
exactly! we cannot expect all of us here to have the same thought. we digest and absorb the contexts based on our opinion, translation and understanding despite of our proficiency, skill and such. this is the possible thing i want to do, when i reach yonder, not to compete but still to have enjoyment and earning as well. where we can see a sight that we are not given too much pressure and earning every letters we extend here? this is amazing for me. so far, i found myself to other blogging site but do not like it there too much because the topic so serious. its been a requirement in there to write with correct grammars accordingly. so to say, everyone has no chances for the access to earn because our vernacular language is not english. in here, despite of our low skill in writing, everybody is all welcome. so enjoy the opportunity being given. :)
thanks so much for agreeing with me and for sharing the same ideas towards here. :)
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
I'd stay away from political and Religious topics that always spur debates and rude comments making them think am ignorant or something. those two interest would always spur different people into never ending argument. being rude is strictly not allowed in mylot, even criticizing your english is not allowed because we are not required to speak perfect english here
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
of course not. i guess all members here are guarding themselves to to hurt anyone (at least not pointing at you face to face) or else one may suffer from a consequence. the gist of the story i began to write is that avoiding stressful topics. and that if you do not know anything of one person had said, then leave it, do not mind and choose another one where you can enjoy and have fun. you are right, because if no guidelines, you can do what you want to the extent of extensiveness by hurting people and abusing your rights of expression. everyone is welcome here, we are all aware about that, the admin is right to put limits to know where to pull our thread if we are being excessive with our rights. thank you there.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
9 Aug 12
Well, I am writing on Mylot for over two years. Although I must say that on this site I have begun to engage only starting from last year.
On Mylot, write and earn, OK! But we must also take this site, not only thinking about the economic profit that we will draw from it. We all, including almost 300,000 users have close friends. We share many things with them such problems, requests for help, tips, understand the customs and manners of a population, and more.
I believe that these things Mylot is the right place. How to say combine the useful with pleasure!
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
even new to this site, i really can feel the friendliness of the site. everyone is welcome here as long one must know to sink herself in. like what you said, it is a combination of useful with pleasure; means while in the midst of enjoyment, you are giving equivalent amount to the exerted effort you lend in here. :)
@marika010861 (39)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
I agree with you missjahn, I am also a newbies, mylot is a place to learn, earn and enjoy, I love sharing my ideas and we should accept all comments positively. I believe all of us here are knowledgeable people and share our experiences and know how.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
in behalf to all of the members here, allow me to welcome you to mylot, surely you'll enjoy it here. to say, to reach a higher score means eating sacks of rice. we need to know the do's and don'ts. i do not know much everything in here so that is why when i posted a question - like title, some veterans would help you in solving your inquiries about a matter. you are lucky if the one who referred you is active because you can ask the person directly. so by this, misunderstanding will be lessened. thanks for joining here :)owe you one
