long distance relationship really works .?
August 9, 2012 10:15am CST
Isn't funny some long distance relationship really last?Why some people spending there time to girl/guy in this kind of relationship infact they can have a choice to look for someone that can hold on so near?Does this kind of relationship so worth? anyone of you could really answer me ? thanks hoping to get a good side comment from you guys out there.
11 Aug 12
Yes it is. You see, if there is LOVE everything is WORTH IT. If you are really in love with your current boyfriend/girlfriend, you would not mind waiting, you would not mind all the other people around you, even though there are a lot of people with more "mores" on them, such as more beauty, more money and etc. Distance is not really the hindrance but rather the trust and love. I am only referring if the love is true an Genuine for all we know that infatuation would fade away easily. If your interest to the person you're with decreases or losses due to distance. It's not love at all.
10 Aug 12
In relationship, distance is not a problem. Distance will help you think if you are really meant for each other. Relationship should be maintain by both of you. Sometimes one of you will need to step on to his or her dream but it doesnt mean that you are not in it, of course you are in it. You just need to wait and let him or her know how much you want her or him to stay with you or how much you love him or her. Relationship is really hard but if you want that person to stay in your life you will do all the maintenance needed, im talking about emails, chat, calls or even text just to keep in touch. One more thing, if the career or dream is the reason for why he or she is far from you, don't put pressure to that person. It doesn't mean that if he or she is not talking with you that much he or she doesn't love you any more. The truth is that he or she love you the same, just that his or her mind was also focus to his or her career or dream. All you have to do is don't stop letting them know how much you love him or her. And always support them, cheer them up. Don't pressure the person, don't talk about distance. Love will always be with you.
10 Aug 12
Hi.thanks for your sharing your thoughts it seems you've been in through it. So now i know why some lovers still having this kind of relationship. how great lovers having this kind of relation its really hard i guess so,but the things you just said its really make believe. thanks a lot
10 Aug 12
If you really love a person long distance relationship really works. Relationship is not based on the physical presence where you can actually hold him/her, dine with him/her etc. It is based on mutual understanding, trust, respect and love. You will never feel alone because he is far from you because you know in your heart that he is always there beside you. This days its also very easy because you can communicate with him easily. You can talk to him anytime you want, you can see him also because of the gadgets now. So it isn't that hard.
10 Aug 12
Hello nashria, are you in a long distance relationship lately? In my opinion, this type of relationship works but very fragile, one party will have to bear a lot of sufferance. You must be ready to sacrifice something anytime. If you're not prepared, don't start it.
9 Aug 12
I don't think a long distance relationship between a boy and a girl will last. A boy and a girl should stay close only then there will be a close relationship between them. Closeness create more feelings and attention in a couple. A long distance relationship which which last long is that of a daughter-in-law and mother-in-law.
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9 Aug 12
Its worth it if you are really in love but, make sure they are too. Otherwise they fake it and then are to chicken to break up earlier and break up with you 3 months before you will be moving close to them and have a new relationship on facebook 3 days later. Sorry personal experience there.