we should really have private savings.

my aunt look after her two daughters at home ,so my uncle make money for the family,but he only give a small part of his earning to my aunt because she doesn't work,i am really angry ,she also do work ,look after the daughter is very hard ,so i guess we should have private savings ,then we do not have to always ask money from someone,and it is necessary for the woman to have a part time job,since it is a little awkward ask your husband give you the money to give your own family members huh,do you agree?