When you're gone...

@ally12 (1202)
Philippines
August 10, 2012 9:25am CST
have you thought of yourself getting old age and the time when you or your spouse will leave you because of death? I have told my husband that if we get old I want to be the first to die coz Im afraid being left alone..At my age now of 35 and just thinking of me and my husband getting old and have to rest someday I cant bear anymore the pain inside me..I even told him if he will be the first to be called home by God I probably will die also.. And when I found this song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kxLbNA6GHVw I really can feel the emptiness of living with out my husband..
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• United States
10 Aug 12
I've thought about it before and I'm not even married yet. I know my boyfriend is planning on proposing to me soon and he always tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. Of course, I love to hear that but then I start thinking about the rest of our lives and as happy as it is, I can't bear to think of losing him. When we're old, it would be ideal if we could both go together. I wouldn't want to be without him and I also wouldn't want to leave first and have him left behind by himself. It's a really sad thing to think about and I really try to avoid thinking about it.
@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
When we have so much good things shared with a person we cant avoid sometimes to fear losing them. But dont fear to build every good memories together with your partner.