Have you ever been dumped?

Philippines
August 13, 2012 5:04am CST
If so, how did you cope up with it? How many days, months or years have you spent in moving on? What have you learned after having that relationship?
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@sjvg1976 (13868)
• Delhi, India
14 Aug 12
Hello Angel, No I have never been dumped by anyone. But I know how someone would feel if dumped. Normally it depends on person to person how much time they take to come out from the situation some takes lesser time and some can't able to come out of it.Always try to find out new ways to forget what happened with you in the past.
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• Philippines
11 Nov 12
Yes, it's a difficult situation. It's hard to move on but we don't have any choice. We should start all over again. We have to risk when we love. Sometimes things go beyond our control. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.
• United States
14 Aug 12
I've been dumped continuously. The worst one so far was in the 6th grade. I dated this boy on and off for 8 months and he was my first love. He always made these stupid promises and I believed him. He claimed he loved me. He would always pass me these little love notes and they meant so much to me so I saved them all till this day. Then one day we got into this fight over the phone and he dumped me. I coped with it over about a year. I still care for him but try to stay as far away as I can because after the break up and during the break up he was very mean to me and called me things that no young lady should every be called. After this relationship I learned not to easily trust and easily forgive. Boys lie and don't mean what they say. Hope my story help. =)
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• Philippines
11 Nov 12
Yeah, we should not trust easily. They should earn our trust. We have to be careful in falling in love. We might end up brokenhearted. The good thing is, in every break up or everytime we get dumped, we learn something from it. We should be wiser the next time. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.
@riyauro (6431)
• India
13 Aug 12
I have not been dumped. I though had one sided love which the other person did not know about it. I used to dream of spending my life with him but it was just teenage crush and he had someone in life and I was hurt at first but then there was no bonding between us so it was okay with me. I took less than a week to get over it. There was always another person to fill the gap. hahhaha
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• Philippines
11 Nov 12
Oh, yeah. I guess most of us experienced one-sided love before. LOL. It's easier to cope if there's no much bonding. Good you were able to move on in just one week. We shouldn't waste our time with someone who don't even care about us. LOL. You're right. There's always someone to fill in the gap. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.
• United States
13 Aug 12
I think there are alot of people in life that have been dumped. I have been by finding out the person i was with was cheating on me. Thats hard to deal with at times, but you get over it and know they arent the right person for you and that you dont need to live your life the way they are, so i moved on from cheating boyfriends very easily because they were treating me like crap and i dont need to be treated like that and now i have been with my boyfriend i have now for over 3 years and hes great and amazing and were moving in the right direction for our lives.
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
Oh, it's good to hear that you've found a great and amazing boyfriend. You're right. You don't deserve to be maltreated. We love unconditionally so if we are being cheated, then we have the right to dump them. Goodluck to your relationship. Let's hope there'll be no more cheaters in this world. Thanks for posting and happy mylotting.