Will I Ever FInd Ms or Mr Right?

United States
August 16, 2012 9:46pm CST
I read so much here on mylot about failed and disappointing relationships and people wondering what is wrong with the other person or more often what is wrong with them. I have been through those times in my life too. I am sure almost everyone has. And then I found this quote and it made me feel instantly better: "Someday, someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else" That is so true, at least for me. It's the waiting for that someone that was so difficult.
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15 responses
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
The quote has so much meaning it it. An if you just realize it, it will make you feel better from failed relationships. The right one will come to you at the right time and at the right place. You may not consider those things as right, but overtime, you will realize that a mess up place may turn to a beautiful palace when you meet the man or girl of your dreams there. I agree that waiting is difficult. To make things easier for you, I suggest you do the things that make you happy, go out with your friends, bond with your family, play your favorite sports, while waiting for the right one. Everything will be okay at the end, if it's not yet okay, then it's not yet the end.
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• United States
17 Aug 12
Thank you for your response. I only agree with your points about being active and enjoying life.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
17 Aug 12
hi enjoythejourney, your quotation about friend is right, and also in life life what is written in our life that must happen,nothing can stop it,that is i am saying that i trust fate and luck only, our life will work according to our fate and luck only, everything will be predetermined in life,no body can change it,take it for granted,have a nice day.
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@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
18 Aug 12
hi enjoythejourney, thanks for the response,fate and luck is key role in our life, not only mine,your and all persons in the world,but does not agree about the fate and luck, if some thing is bad they will through it on others or fate,if something is good, they said that is their own achievement and strength,but that is not true,have a nice day.
• United States
17 Aug 12
Thank you for youre response I am grateful fate and luck managed to bring the right person into my life.
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
That is the least we can do. I believe we don't need to find love for love will surely come unexpected. I, myself, is also waiting for that right person for me. We just never pick anyone because we are afraid to commit a mistake and suffer for a long time if we choose to live with the wrong person.
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• United States
17 Aug 12
Thank you for your response. I believe that too.
@dmx7862 (16)
17 Aug 12
That quote you have stated is very true. It always takes time in life, before finding the right sole mate. Hopefully, you will find the right person in life to be with. Those who are patient in life, always get the best.
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• United States
17 Aug 12
Thank you for your response. You are so hard about patience but sometimes having patience is so hard to do. We want it all and we want it now.
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
all things work together for good. In a relationship, it takes time for every individual in looking the right one without knowing its background in life. It truly waits until someday you wake up and realize that time is truly precious, do not be discourage if you cannot find someone right away because something has been prepared for you in the future.
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• United States
17 Aug 12
Thank you for your response. You are so right about things being prepared in our best interest in the future. That is such a positive attitude.
@jacelle (14)
17 Aug 12
Of course you will. the choice lies in your hand. you are the one who decides who your mr. right will be.Just pray it to the Lord.
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• United States
17 Aug 12
Thank you for your response. Yes, a big part of everything in life is having the faith that things always work out for the best, in every area of your life.
• Australia
17 Aug 12
Don't worry everyone has his own time. if he isn't come today? for sure he will come tomorrow, when the right times come. like me my husband have to wait for me for 22 years. and now that we found each other, it's happily ever after now. but i almost get married before i meet my husband but for some reason things doesn't workout, and that's it. i found my destiny in the right time. just be patient and wait, he would knocks on the door when the time comes.
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
yes, it's quite difficult to wait for Mr. & Miss Right. so, while waiting for them to come, have fun with the wrong ones. Just enjoy their presence, their sense of humor, etc. Enjoy every moment of your life. Happy myLotting.
• United States
17 Aug 12
Thanks for your response. You comments are so true.
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
Hi, one can only prove if he/she had find mr/ms right when a two couple reach a certain kind of age and still living together like its there first date. I just answered a post by "savypat" which untitled "54 years married today". I think that confirms the theory of mr/ms right ( http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2690979.aspx?p=3#1_16125771 ). Finding a person to be with is not so difficult, but finding the right person whom you what to live with the rest of your life is like finding a needle in the hay stack. And the eager you find, the harder it will be found. Better to slow down and just let destiny find the right person for you.
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• United States
17 Aug 12
Thank you for your response. Your comments are so true about destiny.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
Yes, I quite agree that if things don't work out the way you expect it to be in a relationship, someone would come along, one who is God-sent and would probably complete you.
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• United States
17 Aug 12
Thanks for your response. Yes, I agree with what you said
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
Ive been seeing that quote in facebook and have even posted it in my wall I'd like to really believe in that, it's what single people needs to put on our heads. That realization will only come when that someone already walked and be part of our lives.
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• United States
17 Aug 12
Thank you for your response. Sometimes, like you say, we only realize it when they are right in front of our face.
@MissPiggy (1748)
• Indonesia
17 Aug 12
True. Waiting is indeed boring no matter what the circumstances is. And it is even boring if we have nothing to do other than just waiting. Sometimes I feel like I'm giving up. But then something happens that makes me raise back up. But it's an amazing line though. I cried reading it. And it's true, I know someone will worth the waiting someday...
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• United States
17 Aug 12
Thank you for your response. Yes, waiting is the hard part but when you find the right person it was well worth the wait!
@riyauro (6421)
• India
17 Aug 12
It is very hard indeed to find the right person so therefore we have to be alert all the time. Sometimes one can miss the mr and miss right and are waiting in vain later. I have seen some people who are waiting for their mr and ms right and they are aging. So there must have been somebody that they did not get hold of at the right time. It is also true that you have to kiss many frogs before you meet the prince or princess. Therefore keep your eyes and heart open to recognize the person. all the best to you. have a wonderful day ahead,.
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• United States
17 Aug 12
Thank you for your respones. Yes, many of us have kissed many a frog in our time.
• India
17 Aug 12
Yes absolutely. this quote is very true. I am also waiting for my Mrs right. I may have many female friends , but still I am Waiting for my girl, who is only mine and i can do anything crazy for my princess. hope i will meet her soon. And dear friends wish me good luck!
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• United States
17 Aug 12
Thank you for your response. Don't worry you will meet her. It just takes time to weed through the thorns to find the rose.
• India
17 Aug 12
Yes absolutely. this quote is very true. I am also waiting for my Mrs right. I may have many female friends , but still I am Waiting for my girl, who is only mine and i can do anything crazy for my princess. hope i will meet her soon. And dear friends wish me good luck!
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@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
hi there enjoythejourney, with reference to your post, as far as i believed, everyone of us has a destined partner. and that partner is the right and perfect one for each one of us.