A father that passed away...how do daughters cope up?

August 17, 2012 12:34am CST
My father is my hero. I know most daughters look up to their fathers that way. Sadly, my father already passed away few years ago. Despite those tough times, I am proud to say that I have already moved on. How about you, how did you cope up with this very difficult moments? And for those who still have their fathers around, don't waste a time of telling them how much you love them.
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• Philippines
18 Aug 12
most of the daughters as i have observed, they are too emotional to their self especially a situation like this but we cannot blame them for being emotional because its in their natural body mechanism. It means that they could easily react to a certain stimuli right away..in such a way to cope up this is to divert them from being emotional so that they can focus themselves doing things appropriate to them and to others too without any affection to show with..
@thanks1961 (7046)
• India
18 Aug 12
Hi Jacelle, He is no more with us. He is the role model for my life and in all difficulties and troubles, he loved all of his five children and I don't have words to talk about him. He was a friend for all of us than a father. His sudden unexpected disappearance made all of us with much of responsibility and had to concentrate more closer to life and it was a Feb-12 and after few months I left the home, as one of my friend took me to the town offering a job. He left me for 25 year now, but I still think that he is around me with courage and soothing me in all my worries. It is quite strange that he used to come in my dreams atleast once in a month. Let me submit these words in his fond memories.
@tepz08 (9)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
I am fortunate that my father is still alive. He will be turning 60 this November. Just the other day, he started being hypertensive. I pray that he will be just fine. I agree with you that we should cherish every moment and love our fathers and families are still with us.
@Bhebelen14 (5206)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
My parents are still alive they used to live with us here in the city but due to family and property matters they decided to go back to the province. I love my father so much but right now in our current situation better no to talk to him because I want to forget all the bad things that he had done to our family, maybe when the rigt time comes I will forgive and talk to him and I also want him to know how much i love him despite of all the heartache he cause in to our hearts.
@riyauro (6428)
• India
17 Aug 12
I have not yet felt the loss of anyone in my life yet. I hope before that day comes, I am the first to leave the world. I really don't know I will cope with it. My Father also is a very wonderful human being, he is my hero. My brothers and sister in laws I are also dear to my heart. My mum is another role model of mine. I hope they stay with me through my journey of life. I am sad for your loss. Your discussion brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day.
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
my father passed away 3 years ago,it's hard to cope up especially my mom always crying at night,every christmas,and every new year.he's the best because he accepted me of who i am,he respects my decision ,and he always been supportive to me..I love him and miss him so much but we have to move on.but i promise him that i will take care of my mom..so for those who still have their fathers,tell them how much you love them before it's too late.