Are you looking to be depressed?

There's a couple of people in my life who never fail to make me feel a little more depressed when I go talking to them. They are so full of negativity that sometimes I feel like they literally suck the life out of everything. Here's a hug!

Yes, some older people can get on your nerves big time. And there's not much you can do about it, especially if it's your grandmother. We are taught to respect our elders, but shouldn't they also respect us? Hmph. Not necessarily. Because sometimes you just can't tell them anything. Sorry about your bad mood. wilsongoddard has a good idea about the music. And here's another hug for ya ----

hi SomeCowGirl we had a neighbor who was just like your grandmother. whenever we met her she would start with all her ailments then regale us with all the bad news she had read in the paper or heard on TV , we got so when we went for walks we would go an opposite wa y so as not to meet her., she just blackened ones mood for a whole day otherwise.I am sending you three hugs as thats all the em oticon they let us have sob. from hatley.

((hugs)) People like that just suck the energy out of you, don't they?

(((hugs)))

I usually avoid those kind of people because I am such a worrier. Being with people who would double my worries can really ruin my days. There really are people who are inconsiderate of others. They will tell you something negative or will feed you ideas and what ifs to make you worry. Better to ignore and don't listen to those people.

Well, I do not know what she said or did to you but I am sending hugs your way. My mom could have a very sharp tongue.

Some people are just good at being like that. Listen to some happy music for a bit to help yourself recover from your conversation with your grandmother. Actually, you may want to put together a "happy" playlist for yourself to listen to for after you have conversations with your grandmother.

I know a lady that is like that. I worked with her son and for some reason she had an interest in me. I went shopping with her a few times and we talked on the phone but I swear...everytime she wanted to know things about my life that were just not things I wanted to think about or share. Usually about my family and why I didn't have a relationship with them. I weened her away from our friendship, made her son mad at me when I told him that emotionally she wasn't good for me, and now I don't talk to her at all. That is not an option, I know, with a grandmother. I hope you are feeling better.

Oh I know some people are like that and I'm no stranger to them. I think they just thrive on it and try to make others just the same way as she is. I go through things like this with a few at times and it really brings me down in the dumps, where I was already but it just gets me in a even worse mood. I'm sorry your grandmother is such a miserable person, wouldn't it be fun to put all those types on one island and let themselves make each other miserable and not us? Hugs for you.

Hi!You cant argue with older peoples because they have a bad character.Not all but some older people will try to argue with you because you are disagree with sonething.You should respect old people and take care of you.Dont get stressed!

((hugs)) avoid such bad company as much as you can :-)