Have you been in love more than once? Do you believe it's possible?Soulmates?

United States
August 23, 2012 12:01am CST
I have loved many times. I am in love with my daughters. What is love? How did you know you were in love? Have you loved more than once? I believe it is possible to love multiple times as I have two children. But what about significant others and spouses? Did you ever be in love more than once in your lifetime? I have heard both ends of the spetrum, what is your opinion?
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19 responses
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
Yes. I have experienced to love same person at the same time. Well, there's what you called "unconditional love", this kind of love refers to the love that we have to our family and friends. Sometimes we can also apply this kind of love to our partners. I remember that I been inlove with my boyfriend, but our relationship seems to fade everyday, after that, I met someone that I loved also. He may be the reason why we reached to the point of breaking up, but as time goes by, everything will be cleared to you. You can be inlove with two person at the same time, it is just the amount of love we have for them and it will never be equally. I love my boyfriend more, and when I realized that, I broke up with the other guy, and continue my relationship to my boyfriend. And now, lessons learned and we're still together for already 3 years. :)
• United States
26 Aug 12
I think the truth is that you can love many. My questions is there a such thing as true live and how do you know the difference with just love. ThrOugh time I see that it won't fade and true live will last and stay true forever. Thank you for your opinion.
• India
23 Aug 12
Love is the most beautiful emotion god have created..and i m full of this emotion.when i was child i loved my parents,siblings.when matured then got married and loved my wife,then blessed with a daughter n loved her most.so we can say that love has different forms which find there place in your heart...
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
I always fall in love with my husband every time he carries my kids, and hugs our children as i could see how much he love them and in return i love him more for it.
• United States
24 Aug 12
That is so sweet , I feel the same.
• United States
26 Aug 12
Those aww moments are the best!
• United States
23 Aug 12
I have dated many guys, but I have only ever been in love once. To me, love is when you care about someone, when you feel something that you have never felt before around that person, and when you would put your life on the line for that person. When you would pretty much do anything for that person, and that person is the center of your universe.
• United States
26 Aug 12
I've felt the center of my universe but that isn't love, it's just lust sometimes or infatuation. Real love I have decided lasts.
@toyota4k (1208)
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
It's been a long time now since I have had my first true love. that was 42 years to be exact. It didn't survive and so with the other three that followed. The last one whom I am married to and have a son aged 30 now would be giving us a grandchild in 3 months' time. I am retired now but not our relationship, looking forward to celebrate our 40th aniversary.
• United States
26 Aug 12
Yes I believe like you true love is the one that lasts.
• Thailand
25 Aug 12
Yes i was in love more than once, I am in love with my past and in love in my present.
• United States
26 Aug 12
How are you in love with past and present?
@djalex14 (195)
• Canada
23 Aug 12
I was in love just the first time.After that I never felt that again... I think you can be in love just the right person so dont lose your hope.You will be in love!
• United States
26 Aug 12
I have hope my true love lasts . Thank you for your comment.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
I think love has no boundaries. That is why people love have no limit and they can love many times as they wish. I experience to love someone and others too. I am in love with the others due to betrayal of the other. This is the reason why love is also disappear...
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
3 Jan 13
First of all, I have to say that it is very important to recognize that there are many different kinds of love that you will experience during your life. There is the love that you have for your parents and siblings, there is the love that you will have for your own children, there is the love that you will have for your closest friends and also the romantic love that you will experience in your life. As far as romantic love goes in my life, I have to admit that I've actually had romantic love more than once in my life. However, though I still love my ex-boyfriend, the love that I have for him now is the love that I have for my closest friends as opposed to being romantic love these days.
@freymind (1351)
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
I love my husband more and more each day that we are together. I guess that counts right?
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
25 Aug 12
Love is that little thrill God lets us feel when two-or-more of us (His puzzle-pieces) fit together perfectly.
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
hello for me i am inlove everyday of my life, i love my children my husband, i love them evenmore when i saw them grow in height,grow thier spiritual life,thier lovelife, i supported them what they really want to do in life, as long that it alined with God's teaching,and with accordance to the law. Love for me, is sacred that need to nurture to grow not only in good times,but also in bad times of your relationship,give and take,respect each other feeling.Love your husband and children everyday of your life without asking for returns.God will reward what you saw. Cheers!
• United States
26 Aug 12
Yes the children moments are so full of love, my daughters make me smile everyday :)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 12
in my opinion love can have many shape.we will love our spouse,children,family,friends but of course the shape of love is very different for them.i think we can fall in love many times but if true love there is only one.there is no definition of love because it is very abstract and can form many shapes.there is no logic behind it and we can only feel it not think it
• United States
26 Aug 12
I think real true love lasts and the feeling doesn't go away.
@mikej143 (309)
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
Their would be different kinds of Love, we could classify them by how do we act through it we might love material or not. or family even God. Yet human express love or define through its physical or even relationship which not wrong, its wrong when it comes we get our attention to other thing that would surround us.
24 Aug 12
I have a lot of experience of being in loved,at first it was so wonderful feeling but in the end you will both feel realized that your not meant to be. I have seen serendipity (movie) its such a lovely movie, but in reality no such thing as that or its RARE.Now im pregnant without a husband and i thought he was the one, but his not, now were separated while im pregnant, so hard.But im still hoping to find someone who is better for me to feel the real love, the care, the real sweetness that is not fading.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
24 Aug 12
YES, I know it's possible. Wish it wasn't.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
24 Aug 12
I have only been in love with one person all my life but I do believe it is possible to fall in love more than once . I do love multiple people like my family and friends . I have only been in love with my current significant other .
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
24 Aug 12
I think that you can easily love anyone that you come in contact with but I don't know if you can fall in love with that many people. So far in my life I have felt that I was legitimately in love with two different people. I'm hoping that my current girlfriend now though will actually be my soulmate instead of dumping me like the last one did. I still love my ex-girlfriend and have feelings for her but my new girlfriend really seems to love me a lot and she makes me feel it quite a bit.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
There are different kinds of love. Of course, we all fall in love to different people. I love my family, my kids, my friends and people who loves me. We can also love our enemy by showing them kindness instead of hatred. That way, we will make them feel that love conquers all.
@Len199 (28)
• United States
23 Aug 12
Yes love. It is one of the greatest emotions we have as people. In the philosophical sense love can come in many forms. Look at from this. Viewpoint. We all love our parents and there type of love is different from love of a friend or boyfriend.a parents love is never ending and all enduring, there love for you never runs out. Where as love with a boyfriend/girlfriend can happen multiple times.