Do you have a real friend?

China
August 23, 2012 3:07am CST
Hi, mylotters, We all need friends, now here I'm curious about how many friends you have. Do they real friends or just colleagues that you smile when meeting each other. As far as i can see, a real friend is a precious asset in one's life. A real friend can share happiness and sorrows, besides, you regard him/her as a family member. But is it necessary to have many real friends? In my opinion, it is enough to have one or two real friends. Because it is difficult to meet someone that you have the same interest and faith and you want to open your heart t to each other. Have a nice day!
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14 responses
• India
24 Aug 12
Hi friend, it is really hard to have a lot of real friends, we are lucky if we have 1 or 2 real friends in this modern days, because most of our friends are selfish and don't care about their friends welfare.
• China
25 Aug 12
Hi vidhyaprakash_2, Thanks for your response A friend in need is a friend indeed. I quite agree with you. Yeah, we are lucky if we have a true friend, even only one. If we have one, please be nice to him/her. Have a nice day!
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
I have a real friend who's always been there for me. Who would always be open to listen for my problems and also happiness in life. Who shares everything to me and someone who would always make feel happy and safe. I have a real friend that has already become like a part of my family.
• China
25 Aug 12
Hi cagampan1991, Thanks for your response. I'm happy to hear that. Congratulations! In fact, it's hard to have a true friend in modern society and now you have one. Just be nice to him/her. Have a nice day!
@fantabulus (4005)
• India
24 Aug 12
In this world real or true friend is not exist so I not like to make special friend. I like to make many friends only for talking and enjoying and studying.
• China
25 Aug 12
Hi fantabulus, Thanks for your response. I think you must have a lot of friends. But why do you think true friend is illusory? Yeah, it is hard to find a real friend in modern days, but i think real relationship is also existing. Have a nice day!
@Shavkat (56604)
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
True friends are so difficult to find. You need more time to detest the friendship. I don't have bestfriend, but I do have friends.
• China
25 Aug 12
Hi Shavkat, Thanks for your response. Yeah, it is hard to find a true friend in modern days. You will find your bestfriend sooner or later. Hehe... Have a nice day!
@Bhebelen14 (5074)
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
Hi happyforever, i have some real friends who always there for me in my sorrows and happiness. They are not judging my thinking and attitude instead they try to understand it and give some advice to make myself even better. Most of the time they are the one I can rely on aside from my husband because they are ready to open their heart and ears to listen to my sad and happy stories. I am just that I have them in my life.
• China
25 Aug 12
Hi Bhebelen14, Thanks for your response. I'm happy to hear that. You are very lucky to have some real friend who you can depend on. In fact, it is hard to have a true friend in modern days. So congratulations. Have a nice day!
@djalex14 (195)
• Canada
23 Aug 12
friends are important in our life. these are virtual friends. the real friends are the best. we can trust each other. or have fun together. online you can't make real friends.
• China
25 Aug 12
Hi djalex14, Thanks for your response. Yeah, virtual friends are more trustworthy, but sometimes i don't want to talk something with them because i don't want to make them anxious. So i always choose to talk with friends online. In fact, i even don't know his or her background, but this makes me feel relieved. Hehe.... Have a nice day!
@mikej143 (310)
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
Hi- we must choices our friends to interact cause these would be big factor who we become friends were good cause we can benefits with time but what makes its stronger and better the relationship between the both sides yes we are human and do have different identity but to have a relationship or friends besides have also same attitude though it may have also opposites weakness that can make up and strengthen each other for better and worst not just like a couple people do should do these but those friends also not only in happy moments but also in worst and downfall in both sides. Real friends are those who will not forget you even how big or successful He is or they were and still they will look for each other and have a bound to remember all over our life.
24 Aug 12
I had four good friends in high school and it was an unforgettable time.But we were out of touch after graduation.When I got to college,I acquainted my four roomies,they were lovely and friendly,I appreciated their care a lot. Now my best friends are my childhood friends.It is a lasting relationship.
@Fulltank (2896)
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
I grew up with my cousin who is the same age as me. From the moment we go to school, we always in the same school and section. As we have the same family names, we often set side by side in the room. So, from grade school until we graduated in high school, we are always together. Even in college, we go to the same school, share the same room in the dormitory. Though we parted ways after college to have our own life, we are still very close and always having conversations through phone and internet.
24 Aug 12
people would rather like to share the positive occasion for their friends than the negative ones,they might even symphatic for your pain.but a real friend is one who emphatize with your pain,and the one who stay with you during good and bad times,and i have a real friends
@nadrolski (220)
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
i used to have at least ten (10) friends and two (2) close friends during my high school up to college days. and we spent our times with each other for a third of a day, every day! but after i graduated from college and entered the "real" world, slowly i began to have less time with them, until i went inactive with my group. and actually, i do not have any regrets that happened. now that i have a family, i can say that the best and only friend i have, until i die, is none other than my wife. in each and every day that comes, we share, talk and work every thing, either small or big issues. in good times or in bad times, she, as well as my daughter when she grows up, will be my best friends for life.
@Paper_Doll (2376)
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
I don't consider my colleagues/office mates as my friends. I only have few friends and I treasure them. They are there for me through ups and downs. They never left me. I guess that number does not really count.
@skjee10 (438)
• India
23 Aug 12
We will come across with many friends in our life span,but find a real friend is very difficult.In my personal experience,out of my wide circle of friends,only 2 or 3 friends are real friend of mine,whom i can share my feelings,problems.Out of these, one is my life partner or wife.Yeah i am lucky,in this respect.If your life partner has become your real friend,then your life will be very smooth.Though we are in a difficult situation,financially,but due to good understanding with other,we will overcome it.
@Oktavist (396)
• Romania
23 Aug 12
Well,I don't have many many friends.I have many acquaintances.But those who I call "friend" are,and I can assure you,best friends. One of my best friends is my girlfriend.We get along very well,and she gets along extremely well with my friends. Acquaintances can be found anywhere,anytime by anyone.A real friends is very tough to find,but if you ind him/her,it's going to last a lifetime.