Where Do Wanna-Be Sugar-Mamas Hang Out (Laying Wait for Cubs to Ensnare)?
@mythociate (21437)
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
August 23, 2012 8:25am CST
I ask because I am desperately in need a Sugar-Mama---a particular type of Sugar-Mama: a 20-something who is well-off and yet not highly sure of herself 
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And not because I'm lazy, but because the primary skill in my skill-set is 'being dependent' (
almost the same, I know; but mostly because most "independent" skills were knocked out of my brain by a passing automobile).
But I'm not self-confident enough to just walk up to some girl (or a series of girls) and say, "
I'm needin` someone to support me ... C`mon, won't you be my sugar-mama?" ... that is, unless I'm somewhere where I KNOW that each the ladies there probably want to be 'the cougar to some cub.'
So where (in real life, not online) should I go to find such a woman?
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And not because I'm lazy, but because the primary skill in my skill-set is 'being dependent' ( almost the same, I know; but mostly because most "independent" skills were knocked out of my brain by a passing automobile).
But I'm not self-confident enough to just walk up to some girl (or a series of girls) and say, "I'm needin` someone to support me ... C`mon, won't you be my sugar-mama?" ... that is, unless I'm somewhere where I KNOW that each the ladies there probably want to be 'the cougar to some cub.'
So where (in real life, not online) should I go to find such a woman?1 person likes this
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@luxlyangels (1286)
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23 Aug 12
20 something year old sugar moma? You must be dreaming!!!
One thing I know about the sugar mama's in my area Is that you don't find them, they find you and make their advances, although I have never actually been a fan of any, I prefer my ladies young and hot and having that beach like modelling smoking hot body, you should see my ladies, they would get you arrrooouussseed in splits of seconds and I am sure you won't be looking for no sugar mama's. BTW, gabriella Union(gabby in desperate housewives)i is one hot sugar mama and I ll definately look for her when next am in the US.
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
23 Aug 12
I'm thinking along the lines of heiresses, like Paris Hilton (back when she was hot 
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And that's why I'm leaning more toward 'wanna-be' (want-to-be) sugar-mamas, ladies that have a lot to give and need someone to take it
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And that's why I'm leaning more toward 'wanna-be' (want-to-be) sugar-mamas, ladies that have a lot to give and need someone to take it @mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
23 Aug 12
I guess what I should ask is 'What kind of place is best to hang out where wanna-be sugar-mamas can find me?'
@coxjoseph5 (209)
• United States
24 Aug 12
You re sick and you want another sicko to take you in???
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
23 Aug 12
I dunno,but your best bet in finding her is probably in your dreams..You'd have more chance of winning the Lottery!
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
24 Aug 12
Don't think I'm 'just some guy that wants some lady to do everything for him' (although--now that I mention it--... no!), but I am someone who was KILLED by licensed-driving.
You might THINK I'm "lucky to be alive," but I don't know. I think saying I'm 'lucky to be alive' is like saying I'm 'lucky to be so annoying' or something 
no!), but I am someone who was KILLED by licensed-driving.
You might THINK I'm "lucky to be alive," but I don't know. I think saying I'm 'lucky to be alive' is like saying I'm 'lucky to be so annoying' or something 
@josga2008 (320)
• Canada
23 Aug 12
Actually I don't think being dependent is necessarily the same thing as being lazy. Being dependent just means that you need to be with someone who takes care of you in many ways, but that doesn't mean that you can't do things for them in other ways.
Anyway, about the main topic. I think you can find a sugar mama but it isn't very likely that you'll find one in her 20s. Most sugar mamas are older women who want to be sexually involved with a younger man. In fact, many of them are married older women who want a secret lover on the side. Someone who tends to their "needs" and in return they support their younger stud. I don't think you'll find someone like this by just walking up to them and saying you want that kind of relationship. Most sugar mamas these days don't go looking for their young studs out in the open, they take their time sifting through the responses they get to their postings in online dating sites. That's the best bet I think. Use a few dating sites, and you can probably find one. There are many specialized sites and you might even find one especially for this. Post a profile on the site and say exactly what you're looking for.
Good luck!
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
24 Aug 12
That's why I'm looking for that 'special type of cougar' (I think they're called "pumas," but ... 
). I don't want to be a 'shameful secret,' I want to be a part of a proudly-operating team---husband-&-wife, with some of the roles mixed-up.
). I don't want to be a 'shameful secret,' I want to be a part of a proudly-operating team---husband-&-wife, with some of the roles mixed-up.
@Jibbajabber (64)
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24 Aug 12
Goto some of the upper class bars and clubs but will cost you a fortune to get in (if you get let in). I am not sure you are going to find a 20-something though be more like a 50-60-something. Also try women who own there own businesses Good luck :)
