feelings

@Daisy_22 (1230)
Philippines
August 27, 2012 6:38pm CST
How brave are you to express your true feelings? Right now im dying since i'm missing someone but I guess i don't have the right to. What should I do to totally forget and not to miss him anymore? Is this difficult to move on and to do what is right and good for everybody?
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13 responses
@ravisivan (14055)
• India
27 Aug 12
Daisy: Find out some negative point of his -- he is tall, he is short, he is stout, he is lean, he is black, he is fair, he has more hair, he has less hair, he speaks not well...like that. human mind can easily find out reason for deciding in one way. You have decided to forget then it is fine you can and you will. start liking another person.(I hope you are telling about online friend)
1 person likes this
• India
28 Aug 12
Nice suggestion sir but danger if we find out negative point in any person and tell them then relationship may break.
@ravisivan (14055)
• India
28 Aug 12
yes. here Daisy wants to forget about that person and that is why i suggested this.it is due to their age being less --they give more preference for such feelings, people, ideas.
• United States
27 Aug 12
Just keep busy and try not to tink about him. if that helps then try a little hard with it. I wish you luck because i really know how hard it is to get someone out of your head.
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
your really true..each day seems getting harder....I'm dying missing him actually.I accept that we can't be together but i just want to continue our friendship.
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
It would be harder for you to forget your feelings for him if you will still be in touch with him. Give yourself some space and free your mind from all memories of him little by little.
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
right now we don't any form of comunication but some of my friends will tease me by giving some updates with him.
@toniganzon (50049)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
If I wasn't brave enough, I wouldn't have been married to my husband. We both were friends and we were both shy to admit that we were falling for each other. But I could no longer hold on to what I was feeling for him. So one night we decided to talk and I was courageous enough to admit that I love him.
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
i guess if i did the opposite of being brave then i guess we still have each others company.It started when we both admit our feelings with each other because he had a gf already.
@toniganzon (50049)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
That's too bad. That's why they said you have to do things before you regret it or you would be thinking of the what ifs forever.
@Juliyan23 (600)
• Indonesia
27 Aug 12
You need to go outside the house and have a refreshing day with your family first,dear.. Than you could think clearly if you really need him ? Or it was just because you feel lonely and just need some refreshing instead of wanting him back? You are the one who really know yourself, you only need to stop for a while and muse what you are exactly need. Move on isn't an easy thing - as we have to adapt a new chapter of life - but if it's worthy to do then I guess it is worthy of our struggling for a while to get what we called sattisfaction of a winner later :)
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
Thank you for giving a wonderful piece of advice. i'm really happy now that you remind me of having such supportive family of mine.
• Indonesia
28 Aug 12
You are most welcome, Daisy. It is nice too see you are being helped and happy ;) ! Have a wonderful day, Daisy ! ;)
@tessa9 (1086)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
What do you mean with 'you don't have the right to'? Does that mean that he is with someone else? Then I definitely think that you should forget that person at least at the moment that he has someone. I use to flirt a lot (I know, I know) and I did not really care about breaking up a relationship. I use to though that 'Oh well, I think I am doing her a favor' because he will not be interested in me if he really is interested with her. I just though that at least the girl knows that his boyfriend is not that into her and some other excuses that I created in my mind to justify my actions. I did not care until the same thing happened to me. It hurt like hell and I could not believe someone could be the cold to steal the person that I love. i was practically hating myself. To answer your question, I am pretty frank about my feelings. I don't want when people give hints. I want them to tell me point blank what they want or what they need to say because sometimes assuming is not that nice.
@Daisy_22 (1230)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
he was into a relationship ahen we have same feelings for each other but i already did the best thing. I let him go
@olliekobra1 (1826)
11 Sep 12
i think that in situations like this you should always go with your gut instinct, if your heart says tell this person the truth then you should do it. You should please yourself really and not to look other people happy all of the time so do what ever you feel is right.
@wahwee20 (66)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
missing someone whether you have the right or not to express it to someone you are longing for is naturally comes-out.. But since you've mentioned that it isnt right to express it, forget him, for everybody's goodsake.. it's really up to you if how you'll be dealing with it for whatever reasons you have. What i can advise to you is avoid being alone and think of it that much for it will cause you too much pressure.. You always have to be feel good by being with your friends and family so it can help you feel calm and try to give yourself a chance with others who would be there for you.
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
I guess he's already taken. If he's worth to be forgotten then do it. If he will just bring some troubles in your life then you have to tell yourself that you have to forget this man as soon as possible because he won't do you any good. I guess you have to focus your attention to some other men out there. Choose the right one. Happy myLotting.
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
Forgetting some one is really difficult specially if your mind and yourself don't want to do it. You can forget that person if you will chose to forget him. Though it's difficult but I believe it will be possible. You have to make a decision not to remember him anymore. You have to have more time of your self and to other things: make yourself busy and if ever you remember him think that you should not and that he isn't thinking of you.
@ElicBxn (60884)
• United States
28 Aug 12
Is he never coming back? No, you don't forget and stop missing him, regardless if he's just away for a time or gone for good. If it is for good, the pain will eventually ease, but maybe never really go away.
@iamJB7 (123)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
Hi Daisy, I've also experienced that. It's really hard for me to move-on. I've focused my attention to another but still I keep on comparing them to him. I wanted to tell him what I feel but everytime we met in school I'm so speechless and I just smile. One of the reason also is that I'm afraid that he would laugh and rejects me. What I did to stop this feelings of mine is I focused my attention to my family and friends. And it really makes me feel better and makes me realized that if a person is meant for you, no matter how long it is that you didn't see each other, God will make a way to make you together again.
• Indonesia
28 Aug 12
You should give him a sign that you have feeling for him may be he feel the same, but you just do not know. If you do not have the brave to confess your feeling, you have to forget him. May be it's just a temporary feeling you have, why font you go out, refresh your mind with friends on weekend, and flirting with other boys
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
Expressing what you feel towards a person is the most appropriate thing to do UNLESS, there are obstacles or other persons which might eventually get hurt. To forget somebody that you love most is the hard part. It would take probably weeks, months or even years. But is you are set to move on with your life without that special person, involve yourself with other activities and try to avoid things and places that reminds you of him.