How People React?
By rubyroy
@rubyroy (824)
India
August 29, 2012 8:59pm CST
I have always watched people in all kinds of situation and have pondered as to what make them react the way they do?
There are different reaction modes which a person adopt to tackle a situation.
Some people when they face a situation,they try to solve it using peaceful methods.They may work out alternative solutions to settle the matter amicably.They are the peace makers and I always pray that there lot should increase more.
The next in group is the high powered dispute settlers or power brokers and they settle the problem with maximum benefit to them.There solutions will always please the majority and they will be recognized as the most successful people.
The third group always solve problem,by making sure that their benefits are highest.
The fourth doesn't care how the problem is solved but they will vent their dissatisfaction at the expense of others and thus they get their problem solved.
So decide for yourself,how you want to solve problems and let me know your answers.
5 responses
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
30 Aug 12
Well I want to be amongst the people who solve the problem peacefully. But somehow if the problem is directly related to me then my attitude is quite aggressive which is my weak point. But if the problem is related to others them yes I am the peace maker. I try my best to solve my problems peacefully but spontaneously I react.
@rubyroy (824)
• India
30 Aug 12
When we are affected by the problem,we always react to safe guard our interest and they only we will think of anybody else or their rights.Litigation happens when two obstinate people try to implement their will with legal backing. So try to understand each other and avoid all unpleasant dealings.
@Gretchen522 (691)
• China
30 Aug 12
In front of a problem, first I think I will adopt a win-win way,if it is not work then try my best to protect my benefit.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
Being calm and not to be overwhelmed by the situation at hand, then taking time to think, analyze and realize the possibilities and expectations. I just try to be reasonable as I can be and much more time on pondering on the situation, its probable effect or result, and then try to come up with solutions, back-up plan to fall back on.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
In my point of view,I think people reacts differently depending on what kind of situation is presented to him. If it is something that will affect him personally,then you can expect that he will react violently (if he is accused of something, for example) or he will explain himself calmly.
Also, this depends on the personality of the person.
In my case, I try to perceive things logically before reacting to it.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
30 Aug 12
that is for sure i have seen myself so many people react that way for their own safety and pleasure which is horrible
