Can you easily detect?

I think that after sixty years of dealing with people I am pretty good at detecting fake people from the real ones. I am selective and choosy as to who I let into my life. I used to have two very good friends. One I had known for nearly fourty six years and the other about twenty five. The latter one ended up showing herself to be less than a good friend. I have met all kinds in my life. Nothing surprises me anymore. I am just very watchful and can usually tell who I want to spend time with and who I don't.

Detecting such bad intentions do not show even if you are contacting for a few month time.There must be a longer study to all concern because in that way you could study the styles of his dealings,how he pays you from each deals.You could now decide if he is dedicated or not from your previous records from him.

Oh yes..I have certainly met those. I have worked with a few of those for a very long time. There is one particular person that comes to mind with this discussion. She has always tried to "get me." She will go to great lengths to act like she wants to be friends and in the same breathe do something that is obviously intentional that is against me. WHen I got my promotion at work, she told me how happy she was for me and then turned right around and went straight to the office to tell them how she didn't think it was right that I was promoted. Crazy.

You can only be a fool if you choose to be a fool.No one can really make you a fool. If everyone laughs, laugh too, being happy you brought joy to others. The real answer must come from you. How do you choose to define yourself? Remember, your choices are doing just that. As for me, I give everyone I meet the great opportunity to be trustworthy. Now, if they prove to be untrustworthy,sometimes I'll make them my best friend in order to discover why they make such choices. I can work on them after that. After all, isn't that what a true friend would do???

Its hard to know exactly what their true intentions. I feel so grateful I have never met with such kind of people. One thing I know is don't easily trust people with your whole heart even the one that close to you as you have no idea what they might do to you in the future.(^^)

Doing that is not easy and i feel hard to detect what's on other people's mind. But actually this is good for our daily communicating and to make the conversation much relax and easier. lol, this is an art i think and personally think i can learn that. I mean not to be a good man but to live who you are.

Yes I have I think most people have had bad experiences like that. Sometimes it is very hard to tell a true friend from a hypocrite like that. As you get older you either begin to sense more who is real or who is not or take a longer time to call someone your friend.

Met people like that? Oh yea, they are called family, friends, co-workers, salesmen, ect. Its hard to know but most of the time your gut can tell you. Its hard when you get taken advantage of, some lessons are hard to learn but you should at least learn them.

I'm not so good at judging people. I always have a smile and an open arms to those who wants to be friends with me. I only tend to discover their real colors as time goes by. I'm just blessed that I discover this before they could do real damage in my life. It's not that easy to tell when one is being a good friend or just pretending.

ya i can since i have seen so many people through out my life and based up on their reaction and mind voice and how well they behave i can judge them

Hi, I have experienced this few times. But these people are very selfish and greedy and they are friends because they have some self interest with our friendship. They pretend that they are our best friends but truth can not be hide. In the beginning they are successful in deceiving us but they can not deceive us for a long time. I hate such selfish people.

Hi friend, it is really hard to find the fake person at the beginning,. but we can find them with our experience, a lot of fake persons are available in this world., we must be careful to get rid from them

It is not easy or true to judge a person in a short period. Time will tell us everything.

if your enemies pretend to be your friends, there is no way you can find out what their intentions are. unless someone you trust tells you, that this person is going to back stab you. because even if someone is your very good friend, and anyone comes and tells you that he is not a good person, you won't believe. unless the person who tells you is a person you trust a lot. and also you will come to know when they actually do something bad to you.

I'd like to make friend with people but there are really times that we can sense that others are trying to make friends with us because of some intentions. I have a lot of similar experiences. It's okay to make friends but I set a boundary so that I would know if I am still on the right track. For example, I met a new friend then he/she is extra sweet to me. By this I would try to assess the situation. Why? When money concerns came in, I will reconsider things and make a graceful exit. I was already been fooled a lot of times before. I won't let anybody this time to do it again.