Well wisher

@roshigo58 (4871)
Pune, India
August 30, 2012 4:15am CST
Hi, We meet some people who are really our well wishers. they are ready to help us at any time. Some pretend like they are our true friends. But fact is that they are selfish. I think well wisher is not one who meets or talks to us everyday. Well wisher is one who may or may not meet you but always thinks of your success and happiness. What do you think?
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17 responses
• India
5 Oct 12
Well there are real well wishers, they are always with you, but there are fake ones too, you should try to know and keep aloft
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
5 Oct 12
Hi, You are right. There are fake well wishers. We should be careful about them because they are very dangerous. Thank you for the response.
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• India
5 Oct 12
@olliekobra1 (1826)
12 Sep 12
its nice that there are some genuine people out there who really want to help people for no reward some people do pretend to be your friends but really they are just after something. This always makes me sad.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
1 Oct 12
Hi, you are right. When we come across with selfish people these people always make us sad. Thank you for the response.
1 Oct 12
i think that life is to short to go around treating people bad and being selfish towards one and other we should just all get on as best as we can.
@adforme (2116)
30 Aug 12
Well wishes are good to have. I consider myself a well wisher. I have known some people that are good for me to associate with because I knew they wanted me to succeed. One must wish himself or herself well as well. There is comfort in knowing you have well wishers, but don't forget to this for yourself. It gives you a boost of motivation.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
2 Sep 12
Hi, If we have well wishers we are lucky. I like your thought of thinking ourselves as a well wisher. thank you for the response.
@adforme (2116)
3 Sep 12
You are welcome. I wish you well in mylotting and life.
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
Well wishers are people, most likely friends who are true to their intentions and who really wish you all the best in the world. No matter what you do or whatever life decisions you have to make, they are there not only to wish you a good luck, but also to support you in any way possible with the purest of intentions. Well wishers are happy people and are also blessed in their own way. Only pretend well wishers are jealous of what others have accomplished and these people are people we need to stay away from.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
2 Sep 12
Hi, Well wishers are the people who always think good for us and they don't have any self interest in helping us. Their intention is very pure. thank you for the response.
• Philippines
3 Sep 12
I see. So, you're pertaining to people who tend to only wish and say their best wishes to people and that's it, right? Well, at least they sent their best wishes to you. But for me, a true and pure well wisher must not only be wishing you well but would in any way, help and support you with your best interest in mind.
@yugasini (12814)
• Anantapur, India
30 Aug 12
Hi Roshigo, That is common all our friends could not become our well wishers just like that all well wishers are not to be our friends. If any body wish to help they can do to us or to any body, there they need not have any friendship that is their intention to help others. But now a days it is difficult to find this thing in people,have a nice day.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
30 Aug 12
Hi, You are right. Now a days it is difficult to meet such well wishers in our life. everyone is selfish and don't want to help others. Thank you for the response.
@yugasini (12814)
• Anantapur, India
30 Aug 12
Hi Roshigo, Thanks for the response, values are going down by down in these day have a nice day.
@alottodo (3062)
• Australia
30 Aug 12
I agree well wishers are those people we meet some where some how and are willing to do good for us even if we never meet again! I had met a few people like that and for that I Am thankful.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
30 Aug 12
Hi, We should be thankful for our well wishers as they have helped us in our difficulties. And we should also try to be good with our well wishers. Thank you for the response.
@alottodo (3062)
• Australia
30 Aug 12
Wow that was a quick response!
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
I think well wishers according to use definition is someone who is happy for your benefits. A person who doesn't only think about himself but also for others. He consider the success of others as his success.Thus, these well wishers could be our true friend and family.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
2 Sep 12
Hi, You are right. These well wishers are our good friends and they are always willing to help us in our need. They don't have any expectation from us for their help. thank you for the response.
@alberello (4756)
• Italy
30 Aug 12
Well, I believe that you, in one sense, you're right. Who really wants to help, he does it with his heart, and of course without expecting anything in return. If we have a problem, there are people in our absence, they meditate on how to solve it. There are, however, as you said in your question, people who pretend to be our friends, but as usual, in the end they turn out to be opportunists. Or those who think of you only when it is best to think about them. How to call these: false friends?
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
2 Sep 12
Hi, You are right. The people who pretend to us like the well wishers of us , we can call them as false friends. Thank you for the response.
@SIMPLYD (74966)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
THat's true. Well wishers does not necessarily mean those that you always meet in person. They can also be your friends from afar and yet would always be praying for your well being.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
2 Sep 12
Hi, Well wishers always pray for us and always with us when we are in need. Thank you for the response.
@dfollin (12114)
• United States
30 Aug 12
In my opinion well wishers, are like you said people that don't know you but wish you success and happiness.I also think they might pray for you.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
31 Aug 12
Hi, You are right. Well wishers are very kind to us and they are always try to make us happy and also pray for us. Thank you for the response.
• Bangladesh
30 Aug 12
May be the people of long distance or the people of little acquintance may be our real wellwisher. Our nearby people are good for nothing. I never seek or expect any help from them who stands near to me. If would possible, I would seek help from the people of Mars or of more distance. Thanks for your deep fundamental realization about life. You are the only one, I came across, who realized this bitter truth.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
30 Aug 12
Hi, Sometimes some people who are close to us are always not willing to help and people who are far away from us come to us when we are in difficulty. Thank you for the response.
@prashu228 (22275)
• India
30 Aug 12
people are (should be)lucky to get well wisher, especially these where there is only fake every where, its quiet difficult to get good ones.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
30 Aug 12
Hi, Some people are very lucky to get well wisher. I also have few well wishers in life. Thank you for the response.
• India
30 Aug 12
I think I have read something of this kind before somewhere i dont remember. But to this I just want to say that well wishers rather true well wishers are the people who does not want anything in return or favor or help of any kind. They are always ready to help and always try to suggest or recommend something good for a person or a family and never bring his/her motive in between. Some people suggest somethings to their close ones so that their purpose is solved. I hate those people. I know many people in my life who are like those whom I discussed in my above statement. Once there was some scheme in which there was some tree formation business strategy present. So one of my very close family friend of my father suggested us to be a part of this scheme as according to him we will be getting our money back soon and then we will be earning handsomely. My father believed him and joined but later on we founded that he was the person who is doing all this and he is one of the top most members in that business. My father was not in a good position of paying that amount at that time but he payed because of the trust he had on him. And the most shameful thing was that person knew that father will have difficulty in paying that amount and we will not be getting a satisfactory amount in return. And that what happened we got only 3% of what we have put in that and later on we found that company was closed. In these times it is quite impossible of having a true well wisher. If you have a one you are lucky then.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
30 Aug 12
Hi. Your father is deceived by your family friend. It is very ridiculous. It is very difficult to trust on anyone as a well wisher. I have some good experience about my well wishers. But from your experience, someone who is pretending like a well wisher is not trustworthy. We should be careful Thank you for the response.
@WakeUpKitty (8711)
• Netherlands
30 Aug 12
I doubt if they pretend they are our well wisher. Ever thought about the fact that we are the ones who want them to be our well wisher? That we are the ones who have a wrong idea about them, that we are the ones who paint a picture about how they are? Just because we are too blind to see reality, we have hoped too long or ....
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
30 Aug 12
Hi, You are right. We should be careful about it. Some people behave with us nicely and try to pretend us that they are our well wishers. But they are with us for their self interest. Thank you for the response.
@toniganzon (39995)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
They are kind people who always have good things for others. They might not be friends, but they are just purely good.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
30 Aug 12
Hi, You are right. Well wishers are purely good by heart. Their heart is filled with kindness and they are always willing to help others. They become happy with our happiness and sad with our sadness. thank you for the response.
@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
Well wishers need not be close friends. They are people who gives their love and concern even to strangers.
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
30 Aug 12
Hi, You are right. Well wishers need not to be friends. Some people who are always ready to help others. They don't expect anything from us. Thank you for the response.
• India
30 Aug 12
You are correct.well wisher might not attend our party but always ready to give helping hand for you.they always give you good suggestions whether you like it or not.they care for you because either they love you or respect you.whether we earn money or not but we must earn well wishers..
@roshigo58 (4871)
• Pune, India
30 Aug 12
Hi Rohit, My son's name is Rohit. Welcome to mylot. You are absolutely right. whether we earn money or not but we must earn well wishers. Thank you for the response.