Can love be possible this way?

Canada
August 30, 2012 4:47pm CST
There is a particular girl i am interested in love , but if i look at the nature of the girl, i feel like she is wiser than me or she she has advanced than me. But she always have time to attend to me when ever i approach her but i am feeling shy to just openly tell her how much i love her but always do good things to her. If it continues this way can it ever come to a real love if i don't openly tell her and continue doing her good?
11 responses
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
For me if you are sure with your feelings that you love her that much,then you should tell her. Who know's maybe she has feelings to you also and she is just waiting for you to speak it out.
@nupur123 (392)
• Hyderabad, India
31 Aug 12
U can not judge a person throw their nature or what they like or what they have . We should known that every personal is different from other. If she really like u then these things make no importance, so just go and tell our feeling .
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
Yes it possible lovign her in your own way. But eventually you will tell her. Just make your self ready on every posibility.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
If you are sure about your feelings you ought to confess your feelings but do it right. Don't be too forward and don't be too subtle. Be nice to her and see how she reacts
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
bondali that kind of feeling would for sure result into real love, but if you mean to have a real lover (boyfriend and girlfriend) will you have to do your part. I think you just lack confidence and the spirit of intimidation over powers your feeling. If you truly love her then tell her who knows she's just waiting for your proposal ;)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
I think you are in a really hard position, loving someone secretly. Ofcourse, it's possible that you love her that way. Just don't expect an exact return from her because she's not aware of how you really feel for her. I suggest that you work for a plan on telling her the truth. That will be a relief on your side, I assure you. If she like you too, that's great! If not, atleast you get to tell her your real feeling. Goodluck!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
Love knows no boundaries. Do not be afraid to love a person whom you think is much brighter than you are or richer than you are. What is important is the meeting of the minds and hearts and achieving a certain goal. Do not be discourages. Just know the person well.
@Timeout (419)
30 Aug 12
Good luck with this girl and be careful not to be friendzoned.
@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
You are not supposed to feel insecurities when you love someone. You just be yourself, if she has any feelings towards you, then that will be a good news.
@mrsroxas (78)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
I don't know for her, but for me, I always guessed it right when a friend has something for me - well, that was before I got married. We, girls, somehow have that intuition knowing that the other person is admiring us. So, yes, maybe it MAY lead to love and she'll notice your feelings someday. Just continue being a good friend to her, don't rush things. You'll know if it's time to tell her how you feel. :)
@elsino91 (440)
• Poland
30 Aug 12
You'll have to eventually tell her how you feel, otherwise you won't know if those feelings are mutual. Don't feel intimidated if you feel she is more "advanced" than you. My girlfriend gives the same impression, its like she's good at everything and is just the definition of perfection inside and out. But she sees qualities in me she values a lot, some that she doesn't posses herself and loves me for them, for who I am. This girl could very well feel the same way. Either way if you tell her how you feel she'll more than likely respect the fact you came out and told her and were honest.