I told her to have a permanent place for everything

@hotsummer (10413)
Philippines
August 31, 2012 10:54pm CST
We often quarrel as she keeps on changing where we put our things. So when I have need to look for something then I would not be able to see it anymore. I would need to ask her where it is . I just hate the fact that it's such a time wasters to keep looking for things. I just can't understand what you she can't realize or appreciate up to now the importance of being organized.
4 responses
@jenny1015 (13390)
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
Oh boy! I know exactly how you feel. It is sometimes frustrating most especially when you are in a hurry to get things only to find out that it has been placed elsewhere. What makes it worst sometimes is not remembering where it has been kept. Gosh!
• Philippines
23 Sep 12
oh, yes, and then you're forced to buy it since nobody can find it anymore so you have to spend money as well.
@jenny1015 (13390)
• Philippines
23 Sep 12
Exactly! And to think that we need to be a bit frugal sometimes coz dealing with everyday expenses can be really frustrating.
@namiya (1599)
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
i can commiserate with you. i see to it that all my things are arranged in places where i know i'm supposed to find them and can't help getting irritated when someone had used it then did'n bother to return it to its original place. it really is annoying and a waste of time to be looking for things when you need them.
• Philippines
23 Sep 12
i know what you mean and i just wish that they would tell me first or even leave a note to let me know so i know who to follow up. what's worse is when they lose it or break it or let others borrow it and they kept it a secret from you.
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
I know where you are coming from. I want things kept in one place because I am always in a hurry. When you organized things this way, it'll be easier for you to find the things that you need. My mom does not understand why I don't want her to touch my things. Sometimes,she moves my things in another place and when I ask her where put them she cannot remember anymore. It drives me nuts.
• Philippines
23 Sep 12
that's the problem when you're organized. when they can't find something, they will look at your things because they know you are well-stocked and they know where it is because it's organized. it's really okay with me if it's urgent and i cannot be reached at the moment, but all i ask is they return it so i don't go crazy trying to find it when i need it or buy a replacement because it can no longer be found.
@ARIES1973 (9533)
• Legaspi, Philippines
1 Sep 12
We are also like this in our home especially now that I am assigned elsewhere. When I come home from my assignment I would usually look for my things because the house is so messy. Well, anyway everything will be okay when I come home permanently two weeks from now.
• Philippines
23 Sep 12
sometimes the solution is to have a closed container for your own stuff, not because you're selfish, but just to make sure they're all together in one place.