September 1, 2012 9:46am CST
Lotters tell me why do in keep on missing him when in fact he hurts me intentionally or unintentionally the thing is i am hurt , wish just to be in silence and won't connect with him , but no can't be , i am really looking for him . What is the best thing for me to do ?
• United States
1 Sep 12
It can be a trying time when we miss someone dearly. I hope that your situation will improve for the better. Hopefully he will learn to treat you the way that you deserve to be treated and do his best to not hurt your feelings. Sometimes people say things and don't consider how their words will affect others.
2 Sep 12
I know it's not easy to ignore or forget someone we love. I have been into such situation also. I love someone who sometimes I feel I am ignored or neglected. I also try to disregard him, to get him out of my system- but I just can't. If you really want to get rid of him and you are determined enough to do that, then, stop thinking of him. If you can't stop thinking of him- think of all the bad things about him, that way you will not be hurt- but hate him.
1 Sep 12
Let me just clarify did you broke up with him? If yes then you must be really missing him. The fact is that even if time lapses after break up you are still hurt because love still continues within you. You have to decide whether you really want to pursue loving him or leave him behind. If you still love him and you think there is no chance anymore or he does not love you anymore then stop, forget about him already. Move on. According to your statement he hurt you intentionally, it is a sign that he does not love you anymore. If he loves you then let him make a way to please you. Don't let him hurt you physically.