Should i accept my wife back?

Canada
September 2, 2012 1:03pm CST
I had a small quarrel with my wife about, just i ask her why she hasn't bath the younger child and it is 9:am, so she became annoy and took the child away and lock me inside the room till morning up to the evening. She did not come back and open the door, she went back to the parents house, i was only lucky in the evening people come back from work and open the door for me. When i came out, the next day, i went to her in her parents home and plead her to come back, but she refuse and said she has just divorce me like that, that she is fed up of marrying me. It is about five months now and she heard that i have now gotten a nice job and she is willing to come back. should i give her the chance.
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7 responses
@rubyroy (824)
• India
3 Sep 12
Marriage is the union of two people in Almighty,if you sent your maker out of your marriage,then problems will start which will end in fight for the silliest reason.Financial insecurity makes people insecure.So she may have difficulties,that you ignored which made her see red when you questioned her.This type of problems tend to happen in a marriage.When this happen use the tools of love,patience and forgiveness to win back your partner.Based on your question I may say that she has acted rashly,but let the love and peace of god work in you to accept her.Tell her that you will both work for a tension free marriage by trying to understand each others limitation and mistake. Let the Lord help you to settle all the difference between you with love and patience.See a marriage Councillor and get your problem settled through him.If you believe in the Lord's power to settle all martial discord, pray to the Almighty to fill both of you with his forgiving love.May the Almighty's grace fill your marriage with peace and prosperity.
@urbandekay (18278)
4 Sep 12
Wise words, thinks I all the best, urban
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
In my opinion it is best that you have a heart to heart talk with your wife. For me that small argument is not only the reason why she left home. You ask her how she feels, maybe there are more things that you unintentionally did which she found so bad. if after five months, she decided to come back, talk to her and give her a chance. if you really love a person you can forgive and forget. Also you have kids and it is healthier for them to live in a place with a mother to take care of them together with their father.
@marguicha (215122)
• Chile
4 Sep 12
I would divorce her and try to get the custody of the child. She went away, now that you have a good job she want to come back!!! What kind of parents does she have that accepted her without trying to mend the situation sooner!
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Sep 12
She is wife so it's up to you to decide. maybe you can have some talk with her. Ask her what she really want, dislike and settle all the matters. have some agreement- to clear everything. Most of all, ask yourself if you are willing to forgive and take her back.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
5 Sep 12
Hi, It is not fair to have a divorce only for the sake of small quarrel. You tried to patch up but she didn't show interest. But you should give her one chance. It is necessary for your child. You should care for your child. After some days gone your relations with your wife may get improved and you will have a nice happy family.
• India
3 Sep 12
She is your wife and noone know her better than you.this must not be the only reason for her departure.if you really love her then might be your love can change her.so listen to your heart.but from her side she had been very unfair to you,if only your job is attracting her then you should listen to your mind also,and quit the relation.decision is upto you dear...you have to face this.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
2 Sep 12
O friend, I do not know what to tell you. but it seems that if they had left it means that this woman does not deserve you and you should just forget about her. my advice only to fight for the boy to be with you. Success!