Too much negativity.

September 6, 2012 6:42am CST
How do you enjoy life when around you down. E.g....your family. ? I think going tends to make me happier. The one place I should be happy....is the most stressful.
6 responses
• United States
6 Sep 12
My moms a very negative person, and I never realized until now why I was always so depressed when I lived with her. I love my mom a lot, and I wish I could change her into a more positive person, but all I can really do is try to tune her out when I see her.
6 Sep 12
aah i see. Mines with my Dad. Whenever I want to do something, there's never any support. Just "you ll never make it". Stuff like that. To be honest I don't want to live him anymore. But im only 19, so I have no choice lol. Thanks for comment btw
• United States
6 Sep 12
I think some parents need to learn to encourage their children's dreams. Telling your kids they can't do something only sets them up for failure when it comes time for them to make a life of their own. I sadly followed my parents advice till I was in my 30's and I can say without a doubt, I should have followed my own path.
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
6 Sep 12
It is hard to let go negativity, if we are in a good place sometimes someone very close keeps saying negative things, we try to stay in the good vibration but sometimes without noticing we get dragged there or they'll be pulled to positiviness, it's one way or the other.
6 Sep 12
Thanks....Well said as well...:)
@jugsjugs (13046)
11 Sep 12
I have been feeling a bit negative and I think that is due to other people that are around me feeling the same. I find that I worry now more than I ever did and for no reason and when things are going wrong it all feels like it is my fault. I try to think of good things that have happened during the day and to be honest nothing good has happened for me that day to think about. I know that by thinking I am not the only one feeling like this do not help either. I use to be the one that cheered people up, but now I think that I am joining in the negative club.
@Shavkat (44845)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
For some reasons, we are so tensed or distress of what's going on in our precious life. It is a part of life, eventually the inner desire can happen soon.
• United States
6 Sep 12
look on the other side.. for example your friends. you have friends that you can share your thoughts regarding your problem. or look within the problem. like you mentioned your family. even though you're having problem with your family, be still happy as you're together unlike others.. or look beyond it that everything will be all right. Just pray to the Lord and He will definitely help you :)
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
I think your family needs you now. I hope you could still hold on to the stress that your family is receiving. Everyone of us has its own trial and you should know on how to deal yours. You receive the stress or problem as a family, then solve is as a family too. Be strong for your family and yourself too. :) If your family doesn't bring happiness to you then bring them the happiness that each of you deserve.