the loss in life and its tease.

September 6, 2012 10:07am CST
as i mentioned earlier life is full of sorrow and joy.where i get first triumph in school there i also faced some losses.but i m not moaning over them.just to share with you.i always thank god for all joys he has given me and are always more than the losses.i always wanted to join military services and wanted to do something for my country.but i got fracture in my leg when i was a child,in a markete where a motor bike hit me.moreover in 7th grade my eye sight got week and i have to use glasses.these things reduced my chances to get comission in army but i tried.infortunately the selection of cadets in our country is a bit unfair.90% quota is for military present service official son and rest of 10% is for civilians child.i got sad but i did not lose heart and now prepearing for engineering
2 responses
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
Wow, congratulation for your courage in facing life with full acceptance and realistic views. Yes, life can sometime fee odd and make us things it seems against us. However, it is important to remember life is a gift from God, thus it comes with priceless essence. You may have lost or reduce your personal capacities due to unexpected incidence, but look...you still have life and able to function somehow normally. What you feel now is out of what you have focused on...do you think joining military service is the only way to do good for others and to yourself? A lot of good things can be done, start scouring them and shift your focus to things you can do best like Engineering.
7 Sep 12
yes you are right.your thaughts are very good.you gave me a very good piece of advice.i agree with you that llife is not just concentrated on a single point but there are many ways to enjoy and do something good for others.like medical services and engineering you can bring fame to your country by inventing good things and making new ways.we should not moan over losses but get over to it and start a new life with firm determination.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
6 Sep 12
Hi safwan, I really admire for your courage and determination all this while, while army job is shut down for you, you can aim at engineering too, luckily you have two options, which I also think if you try this time, you will succeed doing so. For your information, I also get triumph in school and losses as well, and I did not work out like you, I got depressed and more depressed when I started working, and now I take things step by step and let nature take its course. Isn't it the way in life that we should work hard and smart while let Allah decide on his part?
7 Sep 12
yes you said quite well.we should let Allah to decide for us what is better and we should beleive that he will always choose best for us.thats the reason i didn't moan over this lose and thanked him for his other blessings.now you see he chose engennering for me and i hope that inshallah he will make it easy and good for me.all we need to do is to work hard.thanks for your good advice.