Do you believe "everything is good if it is within limits"?

@deserve40 (1607)
India
September 6, 2012 11:02am CST
I have seen many people making you laugh and make you feel quite relaxed. But sometimes if they make you laugh too much, you feel that it is beyond your capacity even to laugh. If you love someone and love so much that you tend to forget about yourself, and then if you have a break up then you are down with depression. Many people are wise, but we here that some of them are overwise and they have to suffer a lot due to this "over" wisdom. So do you think that every thing should be in some limits...? Please share your views here. Thanks.
3 responses
@marguicha (78451)
• Chile
6 Sep 12
I totally agree with you that there should be limits for all. Any sort of action or emotion that goes beyond them are potentially danderous for the person who experiences them or for others.
@deserve40 (1607)
• India
7 Sep 12
Anything which is beyond limits is going to cause troubles to you and to the people around you. It is said that little amount of whiskyis okay for the body of a person and it may be beneficial in some ways too. But if the person takes it for too long time regularly then he or she becomes addict and that will cause sever helath problems for that person. This in turn cause problems for the family members and all the well wishers of the person. Confidance is quite desirable in all the walks of life. Without confidance most of the things are impossible things. And with good amount of confidance, you can win Mount Everest...! However, being over confidance is extremly dangerous thing even for the mightiest of the human. Thanks for sharing your views here...have a nice time...!
@prashu228 (20581)
• India
6 Sep 12
sometimes, i feel so, if the so happened is not very bad or disturbing, but if its out of limits then i don't believe it happened for good.
@deserve40 (1607)
• India
7 Sep 12
You mean that if something bad happens to us and if it is not too much, then it is of no problem because it is not much disturbing for you. However, if it is too much which causes deep troubles for you, then it is a problem for you. Whatever happens is for good only, that is the saying many people follow and so for some small things which are not good for us, we do not bother much. Thanks for sharing your views here.
@nadi333 (101)
• India
6 Sep 12
Hi I found this topic quiet intresting. Yes I do feel like everything must have some limits. Everything have a certain limit I beleive. As you said there is a limit to laugh in the same way I feel there must be a limit in friendship too because sometimes we find people having alot of fights in friendship and then soon patch ups and again fights this usually happens when a friend cross limit in friendship. But when the matter comes of limit in love then I beleive if anyone is a couple like a husband and wife then in such a relationship there must not be any limit. Have a nice day !
@deserve40 (1607)
• India
6 Sep 12
So you feel that the limits are required in the relationship between friends and not between the husband and wife. I do agree with you and feel that the relationship between husband and wife is quite special one. And so there cannot be any limitation to this relationship. However, when one of the couple stats feeling that the other one is binding him or her unnecessarily, then there appears the fight. May be it is a fight of ego. But at that time one partner should realize that there is no need to take away freedom of the other partner as long as the first partner is not feeling insecured. Thanks for taking interest in the discussion...! Have a nice day...!