How do we learn how to focus on others as well?

yes, that true most people i know are self center and not other center. most are selfish and i know a lot of people even those closer to me. get shock to know they are not willing to give sacrifices for other benefit. they first think about their self on how they could earn money fast, on how they could brag and then bypass other in order to win. no matter the channels even f they do wrong just to to get ahead of others= they do not care about what other people care. so this world we live in a rat race and only the strongest, the most influential one survives and the weakest as they view t as the loser. there are lot of competition and people sometimes forget their important priority like family and loved ones. just like me, i had a have personalty where do not mind to sacrifice a little just like when i always like to do this things, and my sister like it too, i always give way. so sometimes i get lonely not able to own or do things, but i still give to make others get first what they want. surely, happiness could nt be bought it is with a pure heart and a innocent mind that joy is felt.

I believe that thinking of others before yourself is partially something you are born with and something you are taught from a very young age. I also believe that it is something you can learn to do later on in life, but it will take time to do it. It is a decision that an individual will have to make on their own and be willing to put the time and effort into. Most self centered people have never felt the joy of working in a homeless shelter during a holiday or seen the joy on an elderly persons face who has no family when you stop in to sit with them. I have done both of those and it would melt most anyones heart.