What are the usual things you do when your depressed?

@lynboobsy11 (11343)
Philippines
September 10, 2012 7:41am CST
This past few days or almost a week now, I feel dull lonely and lazy to do things I normally does. Nothing particular problem I have I just can't figure out what happened to me. I have a sudden head ache at night maybe it's the reason too. I want to go out and have fun outside but it is only a plan, when I started to get dressed I felt lazy again. My friend visited me twice and encourage me to go shopping I go with her but not in the mood to shop just roaming around the mall. I invite my daughter to have a dinner and walk going home to inhale fresh air. Later this afternoon I crave some Ice cream and decided to eat. I know I have to watch my weight now but I also want to be fine again and bring back the real me.
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26 responses
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
hi lyn, I usually kill someone or try to kill someone for a change Well it's bad and dangerous if I feel this way cause I am not really myself I easily get irritated and I even turn into a monster . But jai can still tolerate my monstrous act hahahhaa hope you feel better now
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
May I know the feeling of killing someone maybe I should also try this one.
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• Philippines
10 Sep 12
uuhhh,,,,,,,,,,,,feels so good specially if it is your EX
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
waaaa how can I please give me tips
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• India
10 Sep 12
A walk will have a soothing effect. You can also feel better by watching some movies with good humour. Another option is try to hangout with your friends, that would cool your mind and make you feel better.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
the only thing I did not try is to be drunk maybe the least I will do. I just hope I will feel better soon.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
I stay busy cleaned the house, play with my dog but it seem my mind is still floating in the air. I stay in front of the computer hoping to make discussion but I never did.
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
10 Sep 12
That is good advice. I don't usually get depressed but I stay busy all the time and I think that helps.
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@celticeagle (159008)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Sep 12
I have severe depression with panic attacks. So I know that unless you push yourself you may not come out of this. Some people have a disconnection in the brain and need medication to keep them level meaning keeping them from a deep depression. When you feel this way you need to baby yourself with the icecream(don't over do it ofcourse) or a bubble bath or something that makes you feel good. If this feeling you are having stays around for several weeks you really should seek the help of a doctor.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
Yeah thats why Im in a self medication right now looking for some ideas to prevent from seeing a doctor. I don't want to be in that situation.
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@celticeagle (159008)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Sep 12
Well, if your depression lasts for a long period it might be a good idea to see a doctor. The doctor would be able to figure the right med for you. Self medicating can cause you all kind of problems later on.
@marguicha (215424)
• Chile
10 Sep 12
Unfortunatly, when I´m depressed I eat more than I should and just the kind of things that are forbidden. I crave for fat of any kind. I can make siome french fries and eat them while I´m frying a new batch. Or I could make an omelette with a couple of egg and some veggies.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
I think as celtieagle said we should pampered ourselves once when we are depressed.. But still be aware of what we eat.
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@marguicha (215424)
• Chile
11 Sep 12
My problem is that I cook well and I love every kind of food. Right now I´m being a good girl and brought some celery to eat, but I have already eaten a bowl of celery
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
Oh, feeling lonely and senti Well, just write and express your feelings. The best option that I've discovered it to write. Yes,the more sad and feeling alone- the more I could write. Believe me, it works and help a lot. Not to mention that I earned a lot too... Maybe that's the secret, once I wrote and posted more articles - the more I earned. Then, that changes my mood after seeing my earnings
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
I see your point Jai I really tried too and believed me Im always in front of my laptop trying to express and wrote something but my thoughts are floating, Im really trying to catch those thoughts floating in the air. Maybe I should invent a device how to catch them.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Sep 12
lyn hi you have a device to catch those thoughts floating in the air,your fingers on the keyboard that sentence is poetry and write around it and you have a poem about how you feel and we have all been there too.your thoughts are floating, really I m trying to catch them And I need a device, but look I have it. My five fingers on the keyboard. whee i did it. see a poem. polish it a bit and it will shine.lol.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
lyn, you may ask "bhabycatch" to catch those thoughts...
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@murkie (1103)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
usually when i feel down, i just i play my heavy metal or grunge collection and just let the feeling roll. some say crying can ease the pain. maybe what i've been doing has a similar concept. i won't try to run away from it, but rather rush into it head first.em]evilgrin[/em] well.. that's me. but anyway, i suggest you go with your friend. it helps if you have somebody to talk to. even if there is no particular topic. oh.. and good luck with the killing thing.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
That's one thing I want to do, the to play but for now I can't find new games that suit my taste. I'm have fun playing pc games before that I should be back again.
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@murkie (1103)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
oh, i meant play heavy metal and grunge music. but playing video games is good as well.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
10 Sep 12
Maybe its the change of seasons...sometimes that happens. My son ususally get depressed in the fall. I took him for some counseling when he was young and they say that it could be an anniversary of something that happened in the fall...might try thinking of something that happened around this time of year and see how you feel about it.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
I think it is not helpful for me I get more depress. Maybe I should think of tje good one.
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@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
Hello mate, you have a very nice topic here! It's good to talk about it, rather than keep it inside you. Life has all the stressors, and they are present everywhere. Experts on health said we cannot really avoid getting stress, in fact, there are the so called good stress and bad stress. Good stress are those that cause you to wake up early such as deadlines, cause students to study their lessons - approaching den's exams. Bad stress, those that we must learn to avoid lighten or lessen, those are stressors that make someone depressed and get sick because of it! Examples are unsolved family problems, unsolved financial problems. Yet, those stressful events in your life can still be solved and lessen and I gradually learn how to handle my own! That is to let the time pass and keep still. If you are troubled, don't move, close your eyes, do not think, just let things slip away by time... it's a way to relax and refresh yourselves... ... because if you are already overwhelmed and stressed out, you cannot think logically, you cannot think ways and remedies for your problem, you need some break in the first place - RECHARGE! Learn how to kill those stressors, being alone sometimes can prolong it so be with your friends, or be with the people you trust, take their advice and opinions, and also, ask His Guidance, the Father Almighty! We knows that you are in pain, and He will Help YOU!
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
Thanks prime, for a wonderful explanation and advice. I might as well try those.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
10 Sep 12
I notice that going shopping always help with a lot of stuff like some back pain, unhappiness, business etc so I would shop if I feel depressed(if I could afford...) The other thing is go play in the Ocean, it used to make me very happy but where I live right now is not close to any Ocean so it is not my option right now.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
It think it is a nice Idea too, going to the beaches Im near right now shopping is not in my list it will also makes me depressed if my budget will be break down.
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@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
11 Sep 12
Lyn, when i feel depressed, i would go sight seeing to the nearest shopping malls. I would get the chance to try out clothes when i feel wanted to. To make myself feeling positive and lively again. I can't feel depressed for too long since it will affect my health. I always make sure i am feeling positive daily, by listening to music. By feeling positive and lively, i am able to complete my daily household works faster. So, able to come online very often as well...
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
I already do that myfb, I go with my friend but no guts to try some shopping I do clean the house so it kills my time and hoping to have a better mood tomorrow.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
10 Sep 12
Oh..very sad to know that my dear friend..Try to stay in some pleasant and peace situation.I think that will surely help you to be normal.and may god bless you.Thank you
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
There is nothing peaceful and pleasant here but my home only many I need someone more to talk too.
@deazil (4723)
• United States
11 Sep 12
Hi, lynboobsy! You certainly are not alone. I feel like that a lot of the time. Off and on since I was 10yrs old. Here are some sites that might be helpful to you. They are natural remedy sites. You know, I'm the natural health nut of mylot! www.kitchentablemedicine.com/the-nine-best-natural-remedies-for-depression/ , www.earthclinic.com/CURES/depression.html and www.earthclinic.com/CURES/thyroid.html I have used all of these different vitamins and herbs. They do help bring me back to a more normal state. One of the best things that helped was a vitamin containing iodine. My diet was severely lacking in iodine and this helped a lot. Low/no iodine causes many thyroid problems. And many things can be improved through change in diet. And one other thing you can do is while you are trying to think of what to write fix a big bowl of ice cream, drizzle it with rum and just a tiny bit of vodka and some chocolate syrup. After you eat about 1/2 of it you should be getting some ideas on what to write about. The only problem is you might have trouble focusing your eyes on the computer. Things might be a little blurry. Take care and I hope this helps a little.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
Wow thanks for these site, I'm happy to read and have something that can really help.
@deazil (4723)
• United States
12 Sep 12
You're welcome! But don't forget about the ice cream. It will be good to eat while you're reading!
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
10 Sep 12
Wish you bring back the real you soon. I can feel what you are experiencing as I often experience that . Is it inertness of our human? I want to be lazy now and then , like you said, I don't do things as usual. But when I have to go to work , I can refresh again as usual. I think I just need that relaxation sometimes.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
I know I'm relaxed and not stress, maybe it is a sign of ages.
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10 Sep 12
i felt likes this about 12 month ago alway tied asleep mid afternoon i could not be bothered to even get dressed some days and i was alway crying, then my husband said i needed to go to the doctors, i had some tests which showed i had low iron and an under active thyroid i took tablets for the iron and now take two tablets a day for my under active thyroid ,i feel much better now and have got loads of energy the medication has done me the world of good.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
Thanks for the info maybe I should try to ask my doctor about it, maybe there is something I should have to find out.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Sep 12
hi l yn I have an under active thyroid and now I am able to start losing weight. I was 210 now am 195 so its starting to work happy happy.I am a positive thinker so seldom am depressed any more.and the doctor did say taking that medication should make me feel happier too.
@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
depression are for those who have nothing to do. occupy your hours. take up a hobby or anything that you can you. you'll be more profitable and you would have any time to think about things that would make you depressed. being lazy is just in the mid. im sure you can overcome it
@moneywinner (1864)
• Brazil
11 Sep 12
I know how you feel, for some reason I feel the same way. I try to motivate myself to do things, like go to the gym, but it's very difficult. The thing that I do most when I feel this way is watch TV and eat a lot of junkie food.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
Ouch! that will also hurt my health. But sometimes pampering myself makes more helpful.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
10 Sep 12
Hi, When I feel depressed I like to lye on bed calmly for some time and go out for some walk and then I meet some people out there and I get some relief. I read some boos which are spiritual and they give me encouragement to face the life positively and calmly.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
I already did a walk but still the same maybe I just wait that it will be ended.
• United States
11 Sep 12
First off, I hope you feel better soon. It's no fun being depressed. I haven't felt that way in a LONG time. But when I do have my sad moments, I always listen to music and sometimes I write. I usually write poetry describing how I feel at the moment or even relate it to the song that I'm playing. Sometimes I just pour out all my emotions into my journal. When I feel really down, I cry it out and I pray to God! I usually go on walks listening to motivational music, maybe some gospel or anything that suits my mood. If I get a headache, which is usually around the time I have to go to bed I take some ibuprofen, do a few exercises in my room and sleep it off. By the next morning, I feel amazing!!! :) However, if none of this seems like it will work for you, I would suggest maybe talking to a therapist and getting to the root of your issues. I wish you good luck!
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
Thanks babygurrl, you writing can be a good income too. Im also doing that but as what you have said maybe I should visit my doctor about this.
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
I usually go out with friends and when I'm at home I play and hug my puppy. I also watch TV and surf the net. Anything I feel like doing that I know will relieve the depression I feel or at least divert my attention into things that will help me forget even for a short period of time.
• Indonesia
23 Jan 13
the usual things i do when i felt de[ressed is listen to the music i like. and i always telling my self all we need is just a little patience. dont give up because of many problem of life. life is full of sacrifice if you want to try to get a better life so you need more sacrifice.