..seems like Break Ups have become the latest new trend..

India
September 10, 2012 3:20pm CST
Every now and then u get to hear the break up news either cropping up from the celebrity world or from the personal world especially from your friend circle. Has it really become the latest trend? Why are we hearing these news so often nowadays? Any thoughts? Please do share your opinion!
4 responses
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
From my own point of view, I think this happens because a lot of people make themselves "available" even if they are already with someone. People nowadays no longer cling on to the term "COMMITMENT", but rather, have, sometimes, an open relationship.
• India
14 Sep 12
Hey thanks a ton for your response. Yes u are absolutely right. People are not comfortable being in one relationship and hence they feel that the search should go on and they also think that this would remain hidden despite the fact that the consequences could be very dangerous. They are not believing in commitment and rather keep themselves open to everyone such that they can try out on new relationships. What say?
@jenny1015 (13389)
• Philippines
15 Sep 12
Exactly! For as long as they will entertain casual "encounters", then there will never be any stable relationships among couples.
• India
17 Sep 12
Hey thanks again for your response. Well yes, the habit of getting entertained and joyed from trying out different partners will never land them in a stable relationship. This habit has to change by hook or crook otherwise people will stop trusting on each other and no body on earth would give importance to the essence of relationship. What say?
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
Ah yes, the trend of breaking ups among youngsters today. I am a youngster but not in a relationship since i hardly have time to talk even to women in our university. Anyway, what i think i observed on why relationships break apart is because they don't take it seriously. Because if they take it seriously, they would maintain their relationships, read books to improve their relationships, etc. Youngsters nowadays are very good at going to relationships but not too good in keeping those relationships. I weep for mankind in this generation . Let's just leave it at that for now.
• India
11 Sep 12
Hey thanks a ton for such a lovely response. Yes u are very much correct. People these days are very good at striking conversation with others and then start being in a relationship but when it comes to taking that relationship to the next level, they often fail as they do not take it seriously and this is such a shame for the entire humanity. Relationships as though has become like a child's play for them and break ups for them is no big deal. What say?
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
I agree with you, people nowadays are regarding relationships as child's play and they just toss it around like a rotten banana when they lost interest anymore. It's really sad to see people who don't take relationships seriously when it is the one changing their life to the better.
• India
12 Sep 12
Hey thanks again for your lovely response. Yes break ups have become so much common these days so much so that the youngsters feel that this is a fashion statement for them and would help them being cool among their peers and friends and this is so much bad. Had our parents done the same thing long back then we would never seen the day of the light today. We should understand the fact that relationships are very much sensitive and should always be handled with care and love not on the basis of fake love and money. What say?
• India
14 Sep 12
Hi friend, day by day we are getting news about various break ups, it clearly shows that the couple don't have proper understanding and trust with each other which is essential to keep the relationship for a long time. We don't get any benefits with the break up, couples must realize this and come forward to solve their issues by their own. Never give importance to silly things in your life and avoid unwanted quarrels and EGO issues to keep up the relationship
• India
17 Sep 12
Hey thanks a ton for such a lovely response. Well yes, people no long believe in keeping a relationship afloat till the end. They are finding it a pleasure to switch partners every week and enjoy their life but in this process, they forget emotions, expectations and feelings attached with each relationship. There is a lack of compatibility factor and understanding level between the partners which is causing frequent break ups. What say?
@annavi23 (6306)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
Hello subhojit! :) I think it's not really a trending issues. well, you can say such because it seems like a virus and because celebrities are famous, they seem not to have their own lives private at times. You know, it's hard being famous for you are being talked about and there will always be people who will look bad at you because of what they see. I don't know why people judge too easily. I guess it's just human nature. About break ups, it sure will happen always if two people don't understand much of each other and since humans don't feel contented at times, they tend to look for other options and sadly, people or partners can be one of those... If they learned their lesson, they'll know deep inside of them who they really want to spend their lives with. I guess some celebrities just try on any other relationships, just to say they have love life...
• India
12 Sep 12
Hey thanks a ton for your response. Well yes, the trend can be seen very clearly among the celebrities. We are always there to throw a comment or a conclusion upon such issues. Well the reality might be something else that we are not able to see but the celebrities must be aware of. They might not be finding that true love with their partners and hence they keep on changing their partners until they find their true love or their dream man/woman. What say?