to get married early or to get married late

Philippines
September 12, 2012 5:15am CST
i personally prefer being married late rather than early its becoz ur maybe that stable enough.matured enough.
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4 responses
@jenny1015 (13390)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
That is true! I married a few months before graduation. I wasn't able to fulfill my dream of becoming a doctor/dentist coz I have set my family as my priority. And since I married young, it was a struggle in getting enough money to get by for our daily needs. Although our parents were more than willing to help out, it still feels different if you earn your own money.
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
youre right jenny in my case too,,if given a chance i prefer to be married late for us to be more prepared not only financially but emotionally..
@jenny1015 (13390)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
If we could only turn back time, I could have given a much better life for my kids....but e can't. So all we can do is to make things work out the best that we can.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
This is case to case basis. early you mean is between 23 to 26? and how late is marrying late for you? late twenties to early thirties? i think this depends on the person. you ought to have a partner to be married, you need yes to be stable enough to know you can support a family before you rush in to marrying someone or getting married yourself. i guess yes maturity may majority come from age, but there are people who have had experiences in life that makes them mature enough, even at a young age. The thing is, i think when you found that person you want to spend your life with, you sure need to assess, and decide if you are to bring your relationship to the next level. it does not matter how much more you need to have as savings- important is you know your needs and you know you will provide and work for it, and that you are responsible enough to acknowledge the possibilities and sacrifices that goes along with it.
@marguicha (90800)
• Chile
13 Sep 12
@kemak28 (738)
• United States
12 Sep 12
Marrying later is better I think so you have had the chance to live life some, mature and know what you want in life. If I had married young I wouldn't be as happy today as I am with my husband.I married at 30 years old. But regardless you need to marry the right person for you and that just might be that you meet them when you are young. Some people marry their highschool sweetheart and live happy married lives for years.
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
If possible that's the best decision to make. Some married very young and ended up in separation. Although not every couple who married at the young age failed, some also had a success married life. Still, marrying late or when both are matured enough is better.