How Do You Maintain An New Relation With Out Affecting Old One ???

@Dassodils (2013)
India
September 12, 2012 2:12pm CST
Hai friends.. I wonder about seeing some thing.I always feel like that.By their experience I think that clearly..How Do You Maintain, an new relation with out affecting old one?? I want your advsies...
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8 responses
@litvillegas (1275)
• Philippines
14 Sep 12
Hello What do you mean? Meeting new friends and worried about old friends? In my case I try to keep my old friends they're precious also, I keep in touch with them through instant messages and chatting with them through facebook. I always treasure my old friends and add new friends as a new circle of friends.. Have a great day...:)
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
15 Sep 12
That's good.good way of keeping relationship.May god bless you dear friend
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
God bless you too. Thank you and enjoy mylotting..:)
@flapiz (4160)
• Australia
13 Sep 12
Well, if you are talking about friendship it's quite easy. Just introduce your new friends to your old ones. In that way you can maintain the relationship at the same time have a bigger circle of friends.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
15 Sep 12
That's great.But I am asking about the relationship like love..Is it good in the case of love?? throwing one person by seeing other one??
@flapiz (4160)
• Australia
16 Sep 12
Well in the case of love I think it is impossible to date two persons at the same time. So you have to make a choice and hurt one of them than to keep them both and end u hurting them both.
@chiyosan (29388)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
I think the only way is to keep and maintain constant communication. Tendency actually is for us people to put our time and effort mostly on the person we are with most of the time thus pertaining to us giving more effort in maintaining and keeping the new relationship we have or we are building at the moment, say if you are at a new work place... because you are almost always conveniently with the same people and so being close with them is easier. But if you keep communication open and constant you should be able to maintain your friends from your previous work, or you should still find time and be with your old friends in school... always make them feel and know that you have not completely gotten over them or have completely forgotten them.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
15 Sep 12
Nice reply..Thank you dear friend..
@yugasini (12814)
• Anantapur, India
13 Sep 12
Hi Dossodils, What relations is it love relation, it is very very difficult to maintain it and dangerous also. Why you are falling in love with other when one is there?take care of you, this is illusion. So do not fall or make a new relationship when you have one at present, it is not safe to you also. Have a nice day.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
15 Sep 12
Oh..froiend..I am not asking from my own experience.I am asking to know about the each and every people's mind on this topic to analyze that if the people are doing good things.Thank you.
@lynboobsy11 (11347)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
If this is a friend relationship I think there is no problem. You can have them both and also you can introduce them to one another. But if this is love relationship I think you must between the two.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
15 Sep 12
means?? I don't get your suggestion's meaning..Will you please explain..
@ravisivan (14051)
• India
12 Sep 12
Dassodils: If you are talking about normal friendly relationship --no problem. You can maintain new contacts and also continue with the old contacts. But if what you are referring -- I have to mention like this because of your age -- to maintaining new relationship with another person -- you have to think -- because in this case too many relationship may sometimes be beneficial --if you can maintain that I was moving with you just as a friend/best friend but not otherwise. Think. think and carry on. I remember about an earlier discussion where you mentioned about your falling in relationship with another person.
@Dassodils (2013)
• India
15 Sep 12
Oh.. Is it?? In my college,There have a big crowd of people.and some students cut off the relations very simply.Boys and girls with out any difference.So simply do this.I will be very surprised by hearing some news.Sooo bad thought..
@dorannmwin (36671)
• United States
14 Sep 12
With friendships, I really don't think that there is any challenge at all with doing this. The reason that I feel this way is because of the fact that most of us have room in our hearts to allow a lot of people in. However, when we are talking about exes and romantic relationships, I think that there is really no way that you can maintain those relationships as they once were without hurting the relationship that you are building at the current time.
@celticeagle (114256)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Sep 12
Have to do some things all together. I can't feel bad that I haven't heard from one in afew days. Just have to check in when I can. I think as long as each person knows you care it is okay to not get intouch for afew days sometimes. And, if you do care you will find the time.