Make a choice,is it difficult for you?

I often have trouble making decisions. I have to consider many things. Because, all my decisions will affect the continuation of my life, and have to think about the impact to the people around me. But, for a small decision, what clothes I will use, or what food will I eat, or other small decisions, I have no trouble.

There are times that it seems difficult to make a decision. But as much as possible I decide on my own without any influence by others. I feel more at ease deciding things for myself.

Oh, that depends! If it no big deal for instance where to have the lunch? What to eat? As you mentioned above. Such questions won't bother me at all. What bothers me is the decision which make a difference. For example, is it a good time to buy house. Problems like this. Yeah, indeed, making decisions is always hard, but not the tiny decision which is actually not a big deal. Have you can get rid of that problem. Have a good day!

I always have such difficulties on making choices.lol,so when people just ask me whether it is difficult for me and i will say yes. But things really depends on us and it is still me to decide that. Maybe most people have such problems.

I always ask someone for help when i have to make a decision which can influence my life. For example, i've changed my job several times in the past. I've struggled in my mind for a long time on each changing, so i consulted with my parents and friends, they gave their advices for me, however i had to make decision by myself. kind of decision, like where to go for a lunch,what to eat,which clothes to wear and so on, i just make my own decision and don't ask anyone for advice.

If the decision involves the use of big amount of money, I go for a discussion first and then make the best decision after considering many things. I usually make my own decision but some decisions are more complicated, like if it involves many people and if you make the wrong decisions in this situation, you may hurt many people. But if after considering many things, and after asking opinion, if it takes a long time to wait and get the answers, then I will not wait anymore but just head on to doing what I think should be done.

Life is full of choices. Choices which reflects of how we think and what we want out of life, and thus creating our destiny. It is good to ask for an opinion from others especially those who has good insight and judgment, but at the end of the day, it is still within us to make the final choice.

No , for me making a choice isn't difficult. I always consult God when i have to make choices. After which, i know which one to choose and is confident about it.

it depends one which choice...normally i don't need to take time to consider because i know what i want, what i need...but if it is related to another person, i have to consider it carefully..

Well, generally a person has to decide for oneself and I am one of it. But for delicate matters such as family matters there are some factors to be considered, for married persons, it needs to have an agreement with the other spouse. It is difficult to decide by almost everybody but for me, I decide for the family without consulting my husband specially financial matters, I decide without consulting my husband.

If the effect of a decision would make a great change on the regular cycle of our everyday set up, I would solicit the advise of my family before making any decision. But under ordinary circumstances, I can decide for myself.

Hi, xiaoping It's easier for me to make a small choice or a decision, such as where to go for a lunch, which clothes to wear and so on, I don't like follow others. But when I should make a big decision such as buying a new house, which school should my daughter go, buying a car , etc, it will be not easy for me to make a choice. In this case, I often have a discussion with my hubby, then we will make a choice together. Have a good time!

usually it's not a qustion for me to make some ordinary choice,such as where to eat today or which clothes should i wear, but if some big really choices knock on me, it'll bother me a lot, such as should i buy a car or house right now . you know it counts a lot in our daily life, every time i face these vital choice, i will hesitate all the time,so , i must turn to somebody for advises.

Sometimes I depend on other people in making decision. Those times when I am not really sure on what would happen next. :(

I always make my own decision since 7 years old.So till now that's no problem for me.There are some people who always ask about their decision everyday,maybe still in no confidence or just lazy to think.So i think to learn make a choice is depends on how serious someone to start it,if they wanna change called phobia,please change and learn to start own choice,even maybe still in bad choice.

generally i decide for myself. No one knows anybody but the person himself, his likes, dislikes and dreams in life hence you should learn to decide what's best for yourself and not depend on someone else opinion. Maybe there is a need to consult sometimes but this is not logical most of the time.

No i would not ask all that questions to someone to decide for myself those simple things in life. I don't have the habit of asking anyone what to wear and what not to wear. I like what i eat and I would not eat something that I don't like suggested by others. These simple simple things one should do by themselves. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.

I make my own decisions. While I do appreciate the input of those who are wiser than I am or those who have been in the situation that I'm currently in, and I do have asked quite a lot of them, I still have the final say in my affairs. There may be some decisions that are really hard for me to make, like what degree to take in college, who to marry, those major life altering decisions. But of course with the guidance of those people who really care for me, I confidently face each one of them and made the right choice for myself.

I find it difficult to choose when a job offer comes along. I'm attached to my work place and the people I work with because I treat them as my second family and we're all close. I've been at this job for more than ten years, and every time someone offers me a new job, I would decline. Tears would immediately well up in my eyes just the thought of leaving them. I know this is not healthy and I should also consider changing jobs if I want to have a brighter future. Maybe all I need is an assurance that I won't be losing these friends even if I change jobs.