When Friends suggest to Join a Dating Site ...so this is what happened -lols

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
September 16, 2012 4:08am CST
I replied a topic where one mylotter wrote that she met her husband through a "dating site". Then, one dear mylotter wrote a sub-comment telling me to have a try. Coincidentally, another mylotter tells me about a site and I ask her to invite me. Fine, this mylotter invited to that site and I realize it's a dating site (lols) Sounds like "conspiracy" So here's what happened after I've joined the site the other day. One member pop up and started to chat. He introduce himself- a young Air-Force retiree (nice huh) And...of all people- he knows my brother in law in person. Not just his buddy in the Military, but, My brother in law was his boss I can't stop laughing...unforgettable Funny experience Wish everyone a great day (^_^) jaiho®- no more dating site (hahaha) 9-16-2012 5:10pm Sunday
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21 responses
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
16 Sep 12
Wow, what a coincidence! That's some funny stuff. Online dating may not be for everyone and it may not work out the way some expects it to be, but still maybe you can be friends with those you meet. We can never have too many friends.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
hello Raine, Yah, maybe that person can be a good friend. At least he can't cheat me about me his personality since he discloses that my brother was his boss (which is a good riddance) hahaha have a good day
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• Philippines
16 Sep 12
hi jai, who knows maybe next time it will be your long lost ex husband hugs
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
Never mind...
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• Philippines
16 Sep 12
hey... that's the introduction part. then what happened j? i'm curious to know...
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
what if..the next person is.... your long lost ex...
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@leateagee (3667)
• China
16 Sep 12
I have never joined any dating site. But your experience was one cool thing. Usually people don't say true information about themselves. I think that site is good.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
16 Sep 12
Really? You are right, taht is one way to know if someone is just playing or not. You should be friends even though without any romantic issue in it. It's a very fun experience. You even make me laugh.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
The moment I told him that the name he mentioned was my brother in law...he pause for a while. I thought he's going to leave, but being a real Air-force an elite army he continue with the conversation. That was really a good experience and I even told him not to tell my brother in law that we've met
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
hello leateagee, I guess the person is just an honest one. Maybe it depends on how you inter-act with the person as well. It was accidental. He introduce himself and I guess the introduction is to impress me that he is an AIR-FORCE (Belong to an elite group) And, I was like- oh really? Then, to know if he is telling the truth I told him that I know three Generals in the Air-force. Then he mentioned one name saying it was his boss- and I almost fell of my chair. The conversation went smooth with corruption, politics and military issues
• India
16 Sep 12
Jai, good to hear that you joined with a new dating site and find a new person who is worked in Air force, finally you both are some what near, as you mentioned your BIL was his boss, is it real? are he is trying to flirt you by telling false information?
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
hello vidh, When he told me he is an Air-force retiree,what I had in mind is- he just want me to be impressed. So, I started asking him about the elite group until he mentioned a familiar name. I said...there are three person in the Air-force who have same surname and all of them are Generals. Then I asked him, who among the three was his boss. And, I almost fell of my chair when he mentioned a name.... Imagine...of all the three Air-force Generals- it was my brother-in law's name that he said was his boss. Well, we ended up talking about politics, military force and corruption
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
Yes, it was a funny experience and also shameful I just can't imagine how things conspired. That is the reason why I never join any dating site because I am afraid that any of my relatives or friends ever saw me joining such site.. and...see, what I am avoiding of- it happens
• India
16 Sep 12
Good to hear about this story, so you both enjoyed a lot with your chatting activities
16 Sep 12
hi jaiho, seriously it is exception moment of your life. Wish something like this could happen to me:D.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
hello nidakhan, It's a real funny experience, but worth it. Thanks and have a great day
• Egypt
16 Sep 12
Conspiracy and I think you are right.sometimes we got decieved in things like that so be aware about it
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
hello luckydays, Thanks for the warning Enjoy mylot and have a great day
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
17 Sep 12
Hi Jai! So now instead of mylot discussions you are going to concentrate on 'dating' sites and want to have a different kind of experience. All the best.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
17 Sep 12
Oh I got it wrong. It means you did not like dating site...... lol!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
I never like it... If I do, I should could have been married again by this time
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
hello dpk, I did not say I am going to concentrate on dating site I even wrote...I'm done
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
Hmmm strange is it really a coincidence or he is pretending that he knew your brother. Most people in the dating site are not telling the truth.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
lyn, He knows my brother in law personally because he was his boss. And that's a good riddance- this person cannot deny his identity. We ended up talking more about politics, military and people that we both know in the military field
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
He can't make a fuss with my Air-Force General brother in law
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
Ohh that's really funny, maybe it is also destiny.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
oohhh intriguing. so you'll give that online dating site another chance?
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
i met my husband thru the internet too!
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
Oh really But I guess your story is a different one
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
No, I'm done with it I just want to experience it and I never thought to have such a funny result. Anyway, at least I found one who seems honest- but No....I'm done with it my dear
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
16 Sep 12
Hi Jau, Have you tried to open the site mp5? If not, just try and see what it says!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
oh my gosh....what happened with the SITE
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
16 Sep 12
So, that chance also is gone. Now cursing whom, brother-in-law or the gentle man? Any way I don't have any experiences like this as ...
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
hello thanks, That was so funny and unforgettable experience. I won't go to that site anymore and will delete my account
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
Hmm, so you did try Jaiho. Well that's good that at least your brother-in-law actually knows him. At least, you don't have to feel afraid because you can ask your BIL about him. Good luck , jaiho! I hope you meet the 2nd man of your dreams there.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
hello D, I consider your advise and well, not bad. But I never thought to encounter someone who knows my relative Honestly, our conversation turns out to be funny, awkward and whatnot- really unforgettable. We ended up talking politics, corruption and military issues Thanks for the wishes my D, but- I did not open the site again
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
But why? You must try the site again. Don't you like your uncle's staffer?
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
16 Sep 12
I never trust on dating or social networking sites because here most of the profiles are fake than original. Yesterday I watch danger news a girl avoid a boy But boy loves her and boy capture girl photo create her fake profile and put her mobile no. there lots of strangers are calling her she feel embrassing. She doesn't know about all but when she launched the complaint of phone calls everything is found by the police. Boy is accept he do this cheating.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
hello sis, I know there are lots of danger on the net. Not only on dating site but even with social sites. It depends on the person if he/she will trust people on the net easily and give personal information. thanks and have a great day
@flapiz (22403)
• United Kingdom
16 Sep 12
Hello Jai! First question, is he HANDSOME? I think it's cool that he knows someone you know. At least he wouldn't dare play you since you know his boss. Anyway I'm wishing you a great love story ahead. Who knows that site is the key. But do be careful in dating sites. My advise would be, do not wear your heart out on your sleeves and do not invest too much feelings. Well that advise actually came from a teacher of mine who is into online dating. I'm just passing it to you as it may come in handy.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Sep 12
hello flapiz, Handsome?- well that depends on the eyes of the beholder (hehehe) He's kind of tall and well-built just like other military men. I am not into dating sites and this the first time I joined one. But I will be deleting that account soon. Thanks and have a great day
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
18 Sep 12
wow it is a small world after all. I met my man through a dating site and we will celebrate out 13 years of being together in October.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
19 Sep 12
hello rose, Indeed a very small world I have heard a lot of success story regarding online love. Wish I could find someone too through net. Best wishes on your 13th anniversary m'am
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
17 Sep 12
Which dating site was it? I did meet my boyfriend on a dating site, and he's a treasure. I met a lot of toads first though.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
hello dawnald, I don't have much to say with dating site/s and I don't think it's for me either. It just out of curiosity and now I'm done You are lucky to found a good guy
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
19 Sep 12
Life is crazy and full of surprises , you dont need a dating site to know people , you may even find a good partner here lol
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
19 Sep 12
hello silverfox, If I have found someone here, then I shouldn't have tried the dating site But, anyway that was a good and funny experience
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
18 Sep 12
Jai sis, seems like you are having a funny experience through the dating site. So far, i never tried any dating site. I don't trust any of them since the first thing they will ask us to upgrade our account first before allow to use their system. another thing is, we are not sure whether the person we are chatting with is using genuine profile or not. Better stay safe then feel sorry later. It is good to hear that you are not hook by dating site. By the way, does he know that his ex-boss is your brother in-law?
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
hello sis Actually the moment he said, he is a retired Air-force military man. I told him I know three Generals in the elite group. Then he mentioned one name saying it was his former boss and I had the most funny experience in my life (ever) Imagine, of all the three Generals that I personally knew- he was my bro in-law's junior scout. I really had a good laugh while telling him his former boss was my bro in law. I guess he wanted to impress me, but he ended up having surprised either
• Portugal
17 Sep 12
ahah thats funny^^ actually what a big coincidence to find someone you knew on a dating site. like what are the odds right? thats why i believe in destiny. cause sometimes really strange things happen. like its meant to happen ^^ anyway was the guy cute at least? ahah if he went to talk to you i guess he thought you were cute anyway what happened? did you stop talking to him after finding out who he was?
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
hello Kat, That's was a funny experience for me my dear. But, yes it's a good experience but I don't consider dating site- I just did for fun and to know what does dating site really looks like...:p Have a great day
@rambansal (574)
• India
17 Sep 12
That was a good coincidence, and ensure that you met a real person. You should go for him. Else, on such sites, you often meet fake persons posing to be who they are not.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
hello ram, Well, first encounter is not that bad. But, no- I won't consider any dating site for finding my destiny