who should understand ?

@Angelpink (4023)
Philippines
September 17, 2012 11:23am CST
In our relationships , who should understand from whom ? Is it always the girl ,who should understand the boy ? This is a very tiring role . We girls wanted to be understood , and to be heard but it is always the man who tells me , " you never understand me " when in fact nothing i do in my life but keep on understanding him.
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@surekharathi (14134)
• India
18 Sep 12
I not agree with you only girl is not understand everything about boy or lover or partner but both should understand to each other. Because clapping is not possible by one hand both hand is necessary for it. You can say you also never understand to me lets go seat one place the solved the problem.
• Philippines
18 Sep 12
Both should understand each other well. That's why we have a give-and-take relationship. It's okay to have some problems or misunderstanding sometimes but not most of the time. I guess that already is unhealthy for the relationship. In a relationship, we'll encounter a lot of problems. We have to deal with them if we really love our partners and if we are willing to change for the better. If we can't already, I guess it's time to end the relationship.
• United States
17 Sep 12
I agree with what everybody else has said here - both people need to try to understand each other. It is not just in romantic relationships, though - we need to try to work to understand each other in every relationship in our lives, although admittedly in some relationships the mutual understand comes quite naturally while it might take more work in other relationships. If parents do not understand their child, then they cannot provide for their needs and vice versa. It is the same with friendship. Of course, in romantic relationships the understanding tends to run deeper, but that also means that sometimes it takes more work to maintain that level of understanding and connection, especially as each person grows individually and within the relationship.
@riyauro (6431)
• India
17 Sep 12
it is both who must understand each other. the olden days are gone when the girl only had to compromise and understand the husband. he must start understanding you too. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
It should be both. Love is like a two way road. They say love is like rowing a boat and two people must paddle both ways. It would be useless if only one is striving to keep the relationship and the other one is not minding at all. One sided love relationship usually end up in separation.
@subhojit10 (7384)
• India
17 Sep 12
Well to be very honest, relationships are made when both the partners start complementing each other. The ones which is one sided never finds its fate in the long run. They are temporary. It is not about one person understanding the other. It is both understanding each other at the same time and looking forward to help and support each other at all times. What say?