If I were a boy...

hi, if i were a real boy of course i will take care girls especially those who will be my partner but its so sad because i am a transexual,and in my mind i am a girl,but being like this is not reason to success in life,maybe i am thankful als9 because even God made me a boy still He gave me a heart soft as a woman heart.

Thanks Toni, these days the monetary considerations come first. In India many men get attracted to wealthy women. The qualities of girls and kindness, compassion are not weighed at all.

Hi toni! Quite interesting discussion. I loved it. You say - If you were a boy, you won't fall for dumb girl. Does it mean that there are many girls who are dumb and may be hollow inside (except their physical beauty). So if you were a boy, you would have looked for smart and funny girls. I think everyone (who is a boy) will hold the same view. But the problem is - every girl can not be smart and funny, due to so many reasons. Your desire that - "Someone who won't put me down but make me feel like i'm the smartest person on earth too.". Had you been a boy, you would have first tell the girl that she is the smartest, then only she would say the same for you. Last but not the least - grass on the other side looks greener .........lol! (to each one of us).

for some reason, this discussion made me laugh out loud!!! i'll chime in a bit. just posting just so i don't lose track of this discussion of yours goddess. cheers and happy mylotting!!!

So that's your type if you were a boy, Toni. I guess for me, if i were a boy i would fall for a girl with pretty face and a sexy body. As to brains, an average will do, as long as she knows how to make me laugh. I like girl with a sense of rumor.

some guys like being a father figure who leads, protects, provides, instructs, disciplines so that you depend on them for everything. they tend to go for those who are younger, less educated than them and have less financially. the problem arises when the woman eventually matures and outgrows them, usually around the time she graduated and got a job and the kids are grown and she wants a life for herself, instead of being just a wife and mother. some women, though, have native intelligence even with limited education. they're observant, quick to learn, have other talents and skills or business sense. i know my mother is like that, but she's limited by her old-fashioned conservative upbringing to always defer to my father as head of the house and decision-maker. she only speaks up (or flares up) when things have gotten worse so it's too late. same with guys. sometimes, i'd prefer people who know about the realities and practical things in life to bring me down to earth instead of the world of books and ideas. that's why when i'm waiting in line or while in some office, i make myself chat up strangers and usually learn something from them.

If I were a boy , I would chose a girl to love that love me , I would not care about her brain just her heart and action counts . Ill be attractive to kind heart girls that will take care of me when I am sick . Someone that makes me smile when I wake up with good sense of humor , who enjoy my company. I chose with me heart so if I were a boy I think I would still be the same

It takes a smart boy to get a smart girl. And that is not as easy as it seems. As I´m a smart girl (or was; now I´m an ol´ witch) I got myself a boy that was smart, generous and with good looks. The only big thing in which he failed was in dying before I did.

I'd definitely, without a doubt, be just like you. A nice girl would be great too. I wouldn't fall for a girl with great looks but with no brains. I have learned even when I was still a teenager that I know I would choose someone who I can talk to and have lots of ideas to talk about even when we grow older. That's a lot better than just having someone by your side, whose beauty would soon fade away, and can never get a smart word out of her mouth. But sadly, a lot of guys would still fall for this type of girl. And then they'd realize later how stupid their decision had been.

ahah im happy that you would still be the same as you are as a girl. its just sad that most part of guys are not so sensitive like you would be if were a boy. anyway i think you are right. funny people are always amazing friends^^ i dont usually like people that are way too serious. i like guys that make me laugh all the time

Most of us will agree to that---choosing smart people over the "not so smart". I am not discriminating people but I do not get the enthusiasm talking to people that do not or rarely respond to what I say. I am sure you understand me by that. I'd rather have my mind stimulated whenever I talk to a person.

Better you remain as a girl. You're smart and I think funny too.

If you were a boy you would not be the same since boys and girls think different. YTour brains work different, your hormons work different. Boys are raised different, society is looking and treating them different which means you are growing up different and have different point of view when it comes to the opposite gender.

I never think about it but now that this is brought up if I was a boy, I would pick whatever girl felt right. I think that too many people put expectations on the person they are supposed to be with and could easily have passed up the love of there life. Everything happens for a reason and sometimes people just fall in love. There is a saying that you don't choose who you fall in love with, it just happens.

If I were a girl I will choose those ladies that has a quality that I considered endangered species. I am not very particular with the beauty but for her being different from all women in the world. I am wondering what would be her qualities