love that consumes you?
September 19, 2012 4:37pm CST
ever happened to you to experience that kind of love which simply consumes you? when you feel like there's only you and that person in this world. I was talking to a friend of mine and he was extremly sad. the reason of his sadness was the fact that the person he loves most got engaged. he's in a relationsip now and that person offers him stability but he still doesn't feel the same I told him that he should fight for his love but he still doesn't want to lose the woman next to him. in a way he's trapped between those two girls
20 Sep 12
your friend is afraid to fight for the girl he really love. cause she is engaged. if he leaves his actual gf to go after the one he really loves and she still gets married then he will lose everything. cause for sure his gf wont want him back. i think thats why he doesnt want to risk. but for me, i really think he should try. if he really loves that girl he should take a risk and say what he feels for her.
20 Sep 12
they had tried many times getting back together but it always ended up with a break-up. they love each other but they can't be together because each time they get back together one ruins everything. it's sad if you think about it...to love someone and have to be with someone else
23 Sep 12
yes thats really sad. but if they really love each other maybe they can find a way that things work. its unfair that they cant be together. i think that both have to work for their relation to work. you say they tried to be together many times and never worked. maybe bcs they let go of each other in the first fight. they should try to stick together and solve their problems by talking ^^ its not everything lost yet. if they really try it for real. they cant let go on the first problem. if they fight they need to solve it.
19 Sep 12
I don´t understand. If he was so consumed by love, how come he got related to another person? Either that first love was not so consuming or neither of them is. I guess he should first make up his mind about what does he want for himself, what does love mean to him and then get a partner.
19 Sep 12
I would be heartbroken if I were your friend, but I understand why he doesn't fight for her. He must know she is happy the way she is, without him. And that to him means more than anything, even his own happiness. He lives for her and even though he can't be in a relationship with her, he will let her be happy. Even if the source of that happiness can't be him because he wants that for. Fortunately for me I'm with the person I love and I can honestly say that kind of love, the kind of love I feel consumes me every day. I say to myself I couldn't live without her but I couldn't force myself and make her life miserable because then mine wouldn't be happy either. I'm only as happy as she is. But it's true, at least the way I see it, if I was ever without her in my life, that wouldn't be living at all. The only difference for me I guess would be that if I couldn't be with the person I love I wouldn't try to find the same thing in another person I don't feel the same way for and allow them to believe they are living a life with a person who loves them equally, when really that person (me) would just have those feelings for a woman he can't have.