What do you think about people who says yes to everything?

@babyeve (1051)
Seychelles
September 20, 2012 4:51am CST
I really don't like it. It is as if they are scared of confrontations or they always want to look as if they can put up with anything. Much more, when things goes wrong they expect everyone to bear with them, but when they had a chance to voice out their opinion they just kept cool and act as if they are happy about the decision about to be taken.
6 responses
20 Sep 12
Speaking on myself, I usually stay away from confrontations. I do not disagree with anybody on anything if agreeing with them does not lower my self-respect. However, on matters of principles I can disagree or say no quickly if I find anything going against moral principles.
@babyeve (1051)
• Seychelles
21 Sep 12
Sometimes it is best to stay away. I also believe that one should never lower their selves respect at all.
@jricky1 (6809)
• China
20 Sep 12
I refuse to make friends with people who can't say no. Maybe it's due to his character or he just wants to please everyone. But the fact is that we have some certain group of people to be friends,so i definitely choose someone with the same value of life to me.
@babyeve (1051)
• Seychelles
21 Sep 12
God that's a bit harsh. lol But hey I respect your way of thinking.
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
People who say Yes all the time can be the "pleaser" kind. As much as possible, they don't want to hurt or offend or disappoint anybody by saying No. Some people are like that. It is unhealthy though, because they need to pay attention first to what they want, not what others want. I sometimes find it hard to say No to people, but with practice, I can pretty much say it without offending them. :)
@babyeve (1051)
• Seychelles
21 Sep 12
We all get offended at some point and I do not believe in playing safe all the time. Yes it is very unhealthy and this kind of attitude can lead to depression also. Yes It takes a lot of practice to finally learn to say No when required.
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
I am always like that. It is really hard for me to say NO! It is a very bad attitude I think and I salute people who are very strong willed to say no whenever they need to. It just saves you from future mistakes and regrets.
@babyeve (1051)
• Seychelles
21 Sep 12
You must be a very sensible person then. Regrets and mistakes cannot be avoided as it is part of our daily life. You must a strong will power to be able to say 'No'.
20 Sep 12
i think those people who say yes to every thing are very much caring and kind of responsible......watch the movie 27 dresses then you will know .........
@babyeve (1051)
• Seychelles
21 Sep 12
Yes there are caring people, but sometimes they put the life and situations of others into jeopardy. I am watch that movie and see what happens after that.
@jenny1015 (13394)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
Ouch! Looks like you were describing me. But seriously, I really hate confrontations. It is not like I always say yes to everything or to everyone. But if my being in contrast to whatever decision or event does not hold too much bearing, I just let things be.
@babyeve (1051)
• Seychelles
21 Sep 12
Sorry about that. lol But sometimes you must try to speak from the heart and be a part of things that you are involved in to make things better. Nobody will know how you truly feel if you keep things to yourself Dear.