would you accept to be with a guy that had already 100 girlfriends?

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Portugal
September 20, 2012 10:08am CST
hi guys would you be with a guy that had already 100 girlfriends? or a girl that had already 100 boyfriends? about me i would accept a guy that was with 100 girlfriends only if he was honest with me and if it seemed he was changed. everyone can change right? so if he wanted to love only me i would give him a chance. even its kinda weird date a guy that had so many gfs anyway what about you guys? what would you do? please share your opinions
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@NailTech (6892)
• United States
20 Sep 12
I doubt I would I mean he is already with that many women and he might have some illness or disease from sleeping with them all, yuck. I know some people can change but that isn't even the issue, he should get checked for diseases first and then I might consider if he shows all signs of abandoning those other girls. Sometimes it's the girls who still won't give up the guy either so I don't want a guy whose being stalked constantly by one of them, either.
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• Portugal
20 Sep 12
i understand what you mean. but if he didnt have any decease and just wanted to put his past behind? bcs sometimes people really change. so would be good if he could have a second chance. we all make mistakes sometimes and want to redeem ourselves. anyway i understand your insecurities^^
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
hi sweet, As long as I will be the last one or he will never had another 100 girlfriends while having a relationship with me that will be fine. happy mylotting
• Portugal
20 Sep 12
yes i agree with you^^ as long as im the last one and he is serious about me. sure would be too bad if he was dating 100 girls while with you! then he would be a real player and deserved nothing from you. anyway im happy that you would give him a chance.
• India
8 Oct 12
I worked as Model and choreographer for 6 yrs. And i had relation with 200+ girl. Just like one night stand or passing affair. Everybody came to my bed to get better chances. But now i have only an angel in my life. And i love her very very much. I told her every truth she should know. She trust me. And i try to keep her trust more stronger by days going on. And we are going to marry soon. :)
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• Portugal
9 Oct 12
im happy that you openly tell here about how many girls you slept with. thats very brave. it makes me happy that you found the right girl and she makes you happy. and that you are faithful to her. i wish you and her be very happy. thanks so much for telling your life experience. it sure changes the way we girls see guys that date many girls. at least it made you find your way to a special person that makes you very happy. be very happy
@ravisivan (14055)
• India
10 Oct 12
While one side it tells good about barood4money --it conveys totally negative impression about film industry, model industry and dancers. It is because he has stated "Everybody came to my bed....." I am not sure whether if any film people/dancers see this whether they will agree. I know even today there are a certain percentage of people who do not resort to such trends and do act in films/dances.
• India
10 Oct 12
Sir. its really hard to agree such things specially for girls. Because it will effect their reputation. But it is true. I have been associated with bollywood and bengali film industry. And i know the inside truth of film and glamour industry.
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• India
20 Sep 12
I don't think I can trust someone like that.People get wrong 1 or 2 times but not 100 times.
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• Portugal
20 Sep 12
no i mean. imagine those guys that date many girls. for sure some of them already slept with 100 girls or even more. but imagine they want to settle down. dont they deserve a chance to change themselves? or to show that they are changing? i think everyone deserves a second chance^^
• India
21 Sep 12
Everyone deserve a second chance.But its hard to trust someone like that.
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• Portugal
21 Sep 12
i guess it depends of the way the person treats you. that way you can see if his feelings are true or not. but sure is a bit hard to trust. but we never know people change sometimes. so maybe you should give it a chance :) who knows she could be the right girl for you.
@adrians (52)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
I guess you should ^^.. If you ask my wife,, I think he can give you as much as answer as you want ^^.. Before I was such a playboy and I did have too many girlfriends, but I think I did not reach that 100 quota ^^ But after meeting the one for me, It changed me. She saved me from being trap in a false paradise. She lighted up my soul again from that dim dark place. ^^ you see , the likes of me are in need of saving.. so if no one would give us a chance.. then we would be locked up from that empty paradise. ^^
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• Portugal
9 Oct 12
thats so cute that she could help you finding true love^^ i guess you had many girls because you were looking for love. we all have our way to look for love. some date many people wishing to find the right one. others find themselves wanting just serious relations and getting hurt and hurt till the right person appears. we all have our own way. im really happy that you found a good wife. im sure that she is also happy to have you as her husband because you seem a sweet guy thanks so much for sharing your experience
@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
1 Oct 12
That must be very hard to deal with.. I mean you always have to check your back for one of your bf's ex's who still loves the guy might be following you and will stab you in the back for taking her ex bf . Anyway, yes, I would still accept him despite the consequences. As long as he will be honest with me and that he can assure me that I will be his last, why not? Love is not measured by how many gf's/bf's you have had but how much love each of you have for each other.
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• Portugal
9 Oct 12
ahah his exes could make a plot to kill us right? anyway im happy that you would give him a chance. actually i think he must be a special guy to tell that he had 100 relationships. most part of guys wont talk so openly about their past lovers. so i guess a guy like this deserved love. at least a chance to prove his love.
@toniganzon (42795)
• Philippines
25 Sep 12
They are all relationships in the past! So why would it matter to me? For as long as he's sincere to me and he makes me feel like i'm the last, then what happened in the past won't matter to me at all.
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• Portugal
9 Oct 12
im happy that you think that way toni. we should always be able to give a second chance to everyone. everyone has a past. people change everyday so why not try to trust a guy that had 100 gfs but wants to love only one girl now? its easier for me to believe in a guy that is so honest to tell that he had 100 relations than one guy that seems so innocent.
22 Sep 12
It is probably a lot easier for girls to accept a guy who had that many girls in their life. I do not see anything wring if a girl wants to marry a guy who had so many girlfriends but only if the guy wants to not have any girlfriend ever again and if he has changed honestly. Though it is a little harder for guys to accept a girl who has had tens of boyfriends. Guys just do not like this kind of girl, even if the girl wants to change. It is just girls are more considerate probably when it comes to accept a partner based on their previous history.
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• Portugal
9 Oct 12
i guess you are right. because we girls are more sensitive than guys. not all girls but the most part. for me even as a girl would bother me a bit to have a boyfriend that had so many girlfriends. but it was his past so i would forget that and give him a chance^^ if he wanted to change why not trust him? but i guess you are right i cant imagine a guy that accepts a girl that had 100 boyfriends. unless that guy is really sweet.
@kokomo (1868)
• Philippines
21 Sep 12
It seems weird to have a boyfriend with 100 ex girlfriends. Thus he exists? hehe. For me, there is nothing wrong to love him and by loving someone we should accept the real him. Yeah, being honest is so much important in a relationship.
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• Portugal
21 Sep 12
ahah i liked when you asked thus he exists? ahah i guess there are guys like this in the world^^ bcs many guys just want to play around you know but im happy you would give him a chance. its like you say when we accept someone we need to accept him for who he is and who he used to be. and everyone can change ^^
@zeonstar (54)
• India
20 Sep 12
no. will not appreciate this thing in both cases , as well as in guy,and as well as in the girl, because firstly the person who have 100 or more than this gfs/bfs,that is never a faith full person. all time he waste his /her time in friendship relation hence, when he will work for his/her future prospects, so in my point of view i a never be do friendship in this regarding.
• Portugal
20 Sep 12
this is about a guy that had many love relationships but wants a serious relation now. i mean everyone deserves a second chance. why wouldnt you give a chance to a guy that really loves you? does the past really matter if the person changed now? maybe he changed and really loves you. then you lose the chance to be happy. cause we never know who is the person that is meant to makes us happy.
• Philippines
17 Oct 12
I don't think so. 'Coz if this guy has failed 100 relationships already, then I guess there's a problem with him. I mean figures do matter in some aspects in life. Yes, people can change some habits but I don't think he can change himself totally. Having 100 partners is quite a long span of learning how to invest in a relationship. If this guy didn't invest n his 100 GFs before, what makes you so sure he would be totally contented with one girl? Maybe yes, he will tell himself he has found the right one only if he knows that he's not getting any younger and that he can't play his same old sweet talks considering he's aging. I don't think that type of guy can settle in a serious relationship unless he reaches old age. It's too risky. Just an opinion:)
• Philippines
16 Oct 12
I guess I can't handle to be with a guy like that. And I'm not sure if I could trust a man who had done 100 relationships. Besides, I guess a guy like that could already be consider a Casanova! :)